Can you burn out on the lifestyle?
Yes. "Lifestyle burnout" is a recognized pattern among long-running active couples: declining enjoyment of events you previously looked forward to, post-encounter dissatisfaction, growing reluctance to attend, primary-relationship strain. The standard response is a deliberate "reset" — weeks or months off active play to reconnect with your primary partner, refresh your relationship to the scene, and decide whether to re-enter at a different cadence or scope. Resets are common enough among long-running couples that the term is used without explanation in most lifestyle communities. The rhythm "play, reset, play, reset" beats continuous engagement.