Can I swing if my partner is jealous?
Probably not yet — and pushing through jealousy is the most reliable way to damage a relationship. Jealousy is information, not a verdict: it usually points at insecurity, an unmet need, or a worry about the relationship that needs naming and addressing first. Couples who do well in the lifestyle generally feel secure together long before they start. If your partner is jealous about hypothetical scenarios, work on the underlying security (communication, shared time, primary-relationship investment) before any actual encounters. The lifestyle amplifies whatever's already there.