What is a safe call and should I do them?
A safe call is a pre-arranged check-in with a friend during or after a meet with a new partner. The friend has the time, the location, and a backup plan if the call is missed. Standard practice for first-time hookups, especially for women meeting strangers from lifestyle dating sites — and recommended for everyone, not just women. Sample script: text a friend "going to meet at [bar] at 8pm, will text you at 11pm. If you don't hear from me by midnight, [specific action]." A 30-second routine that materially reduces real risk.