What should I bring to a swinger house party?
A small contribution — wine, snacks, or a six-pack — signals that you understand the host is doing real work. Many regular hosts publish a "bring" list on the invitation; follow it. Always bring your own condoms (most hosts maintain a shared bowl, but personal preference matters). Bring a small bag with what you'd want post-play: toiletries, a towel, a change of clothes if you're staying. Don't bring uninvited guests — most house parties are tightly capped and "plus one" is a serious request, not a casual one.