What is the best lifestyle resort for first-timers?

Desire Pearl in Riviera Maya, Mexico, is the most consistent newcomer-friendly recommendation. The property is modern, the food is strong, the structured social programming gives newcomers a clear way into the scene, and the crowd is mid-30s to 50s with a high proportion of first-timers. Desire Riviera Maya (the larger sister property) is a close second, with more events but a busier vibe. Hedonism II in Jamaica is excellent for experienced lifestylers but typically too freewheeling for a first vacation in the lifestyle.