Are there gay-friendly or queer lifestyle clubs?
Yes — though the mainstream swinger lifestyle scene skews heterosexual, queer-inclusive lifestyle and play spaces have grown substantially. Specific resort takeover weeks (Hedonism, Desire) periodically run LGBTQ+-focused weeks. Most major US metros have queer kink scenes that overlap with the lifestyle for couples who play at the intersection. Read event policies carefully — explicit inclusion language is more reliable than ambiguous "all welcome" framing.