Spit Roast
An MMF or group configuration in which one partner is penetrated from both ends at once — typically vaginally or anally by one partner and orally by another. Distinct from double penetration. Vocabulary borrowed from porn; widely used at lifestyle events as a shorthand.
The slang sense of spit-roast is a metaphorical extension of the cooking term — meat skewered on a rod with one end resting on each support — and the sexual usage applies the same geometry: a center participant taken from both ends simultaneously by two partners. Wiktionary records the slang as a transitive verb meaning a sexual practice in which two people penetrate a single partner at the same time, one orally and the other vaginally or anally.
Lifestyle vocabulary distinguishes spit-roast cleanly from double penetration (both partners penetrating the same orifice or vaginally-and-anally), and from the broader MMF or FFM threesome categories — the latter describe gender configuration, while spit-roast describes a specific simultaneous arrangement. The term is most often used in the MMF "two men and one woman" form, but the geometry is gender-neutral and the same word applies to any 2-on-1 configuration of that shape.
The term is one of several borrowed wholesale from porn vocabulary into lifestyle shorthand, alongside Eiffel Tower, reverse cowgirl, and creampie. As with any shorthand, its main practical use at a club or hotel takeover is signaling — saying "we're up for spit-roasting tonight" communicates a particular configuration and headcount in a single phrase, which is useful when negotiation needs to happen quickly and over loud music.
Sources: Wiktionary
Related Terms
- MMF Threesome — A threesome involving two men and one woman. May be "bi-MMF" if the two men engage with each other, or "straight-MMF" / "double penetration" / "spit roast" if the men interact only with the woman.
- Double Penetration — A sex act in which a person is penetrated by two partners simultaneously — most often vaginally and anally, though "DVP" (double vaginal) is a separate variant. Common in MMF threesomes and some gangbang scenarios. Requires careful negotiation, lubrication, and consent verification.
- Group Sex — Sexual activity involving more than three people simultaneously in a single shared space. Common at on-premise lifestyle clubs, takeover events, and dedicated play parties. Etiquette differs from one-on-one play: ask before joining, don't interrupt established pairings, and watch for any participant signalling withdrawal.