LoversAfterDark

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Where does swinging and poly start to blur the lines?

perhaps the question isn't important, as lablels tend to be problematic ( a rose by any other name) when you try to apply them to things as fluid as relationships, but just curious what people's takes are on the subject. Seems like there i…

Best way to cut weight?

Mayhem, Here is the crappy thing. If you are dieting and eating enough to lose weight you will lose both fat and muscle. You can not avoid this. You CAN try and shift the balance to fat as much as possible. You do this by continuing to do…

BDSM Workshop?

I know of a couple. There is a place in Philly that runs classes and workshops. It's located inside a sex shop on SOuth Street called the Passional Boutique. The classes are done by a place called the Sexploratorium. You can find them onli…

Best way to cut weight?

Light weights is actually fine. You can make progress with light weights too, just do a higher numbers of reps. You can also try to do some isolation exercises to keep stress of off whatever part you need to be careful with. If it's your b…

BDSM without humiliation

Humiliation is really only one aspect and not everyone is into it. You can still dominate someone and tie them up, even get into impact play without humiliation. You just have to mix in praise and reward. You might tie someone up but them…

Best way to cut weight?

One lb a week is about the most you ever want to lose. Any more than that and you're basically starving yourself. 6 lbs in 6 weeks is a good realistic and safe target. The best thing you can do is track everything you eat on an app like My…