PaulinSJ

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The day's news. Anything worth conversing about?

Marion, not picking on you by any means. Well done grabbing that rate, I was so lucky as this house was my first one post-divorce. I shudder to think what my payment would be trying to buy today, my house is up in value by about 125K.

The day's news. Anything worth conversing about?

Marion, not quite four years, I had a 3.5% FHA 30 year when I bought my house in March 2021. Refinanced into a 3.625% 20 year conventional a year later, due to huge equity appreciation, got rid of mortgage insurance and payment barely incr…

Messaging not working

Very interesting about the 255 character rule! Now I know why two messages show in the counter when there is actually only one

How much chatting before meets is too much?

Ymichael - I would cut bait, no certs in 4 years is a red flag to me. If they had a cert in the time window since you started chatting, that increases the odds of ever meeting to maybe 5%. Time is a finite resource and I need to spend it w…

How much chatting before meets is too much?

Dear Diary, you are so right! Unfortunately on here, people just don't get it sometimes. When I see "need to chat more before we meet" I want to puke. I mean, what is the harm in meeting at a local bar for a drink to see how we vibe? If it…

How much chatting before meets is too much?

Dear Diary, best of luck with the date! I say that when a meet-up occurs very soon after first contact, and simple directions are followed with a good vibe, that usually spells success.

How much chatting before meets is too much?

Once again this past weekend my rule of thumb was proven - the more chatting drags on, the less the chances of ever meeting! I messaged a local unicorn on Saturday noonish with a brand new profile - pics had not even hit SLS yet. She got r…

Will Trump ever have a good week?

Welp, the pigeons have finally come home to roost. The more you trash DJT in the media, drag him to court, convict him of felonies a/k/a journal entries, and shoot at him, the more popular he becomes. Just one question, 81 million vote wer…

Will Trump ever have a good week?

I have been on SLS since 2018. So hardly a new guy. For the record I am down the middle but lean a bit conservative. The combination of Harris and Walz is scary, just way too liberal for my taste. I would have been warmer and fuzzier with…

Will Trump ever have a good week?

I love when people say the unemployment rate is lower during Biden's term when compared to the end of Trump's. Anyone remember what happened 10 months before Trump left? Of course, COVID and the restrictions that went on for months, much l…

Will Trump ever have a good week?

The "bump in the road" for KH hit today with the DOW dropping over 1,000 points! Her honeymoon, if you can call it that, is over. Unemployment is up as well, markets not feeling warm and fuzzy about 4 more years of total Democrat control.

Will Trump ever have a good week?

History repeats itself, so let's look at the last President who was shot (admittedly while in office), Ronald Reagan. In 1984 Reagan carried 49 states to win his second term, the only state he did not win was Minnesota, the home of Democra…

Single Female Profiles

I report these obvious fake new profiles like a hawk, and Wayne does a good job removing them. Anything with Kik info is a dead giveaway that they want to get into your wallet.

Biden-Trump Debates

LOL Goodenuff, I like your post. Of course JV has a big ego, as does Trump. And those TV shows...well yeah they were definitely out there.

Biden-Trump Debates

goodenuff, you are from the home town of one of my favorites of all time, Jesse Ventura. So I hope you can appreciate what a non-career politician can bring to the table. Biden has been in politics for 52 years, but what has he really done?

Biden-Trump Debates

The scariest thing about that debate is how close Kamala is to becoming President. They are only trying to keep Dementia Joe in office, as her approval ratings as VP are like 25%. The plan is to try to get Joe to win out of sheer anti-Trum…

SLS Maintenance Banner

That's interesting Wayne, if I have a free weekend I am trolling the Hot Dates hour by hour to see what pops up (like this upcoming weekend will be, for example)! But Tuesday is probably the best day of the week to do maintenance

SLS Maintenance Banner

I am just thankful that whatever the update is, this time it's a Tuesday event and not on a weekend! That's an improvement

How many of you are bareback optional?

AZcouple is right on the money. I use the analogy about condoms in this way: Using one is like wearing a raincoat, then jumping into the deep end of a swimming pool and expecting not to get wet. Fluids are everywhere when swinging.

How many of you are bareback optional?

Again, well-written eroticamazon. The last time I performed anal was when I was married, and not even in the LS yet. Leave that off the table and the risk of HIV transmission is statistically zero.

How many of you are bareback optional?

eroticamazon, well-written synopsis on your end. I have posted before that the odds of catching HIV from swinging are lower than being hurt in a car accident on the way to a swing party or club!

Bareback.

Well said FunItalian! Everything in life carries risk. The odds of catching HIV from BB swinging are probably less than odds of being in a car accident driving to the swing event! Everyone has their own tolerances.

SLS Maintenance Banner

ItalianGinger, that's a great idea! Would be great to monitor what's new. I use multiple quoting software programs for my job, and every time there is an update, a list of what was fixed is provided.

How much chatting before meets is too much?

I kind of have a rule after 6 years of doing this: the longer chatting goes on, the less the odds of ever actually meeting up in real life! At least, that is my experience as a single male

Pregnant women

New_ Hotwife: I love Madeira Beach! And that was a hot story...drinking breast milk is incredibly erotic. Bringing back some amazing memories for me.

Pregnant women

It's been almost 26 years for me (was my baby LOL), it's the best sex ever! I miss it dearly

plan B

onehourcouple, better to be "messed up" for a week, vs. 18 years! Not a bad deal, if you ask me.

Kudos

Site feels lightning quick on my computer today, even Hot Dates, which have always been notoriously glitchy and slow.

charged again

Biden had classified documents in his barely locked garage in Delaware, oh that's right, he is the sitting President so NBD! All of this garbage has to end. It's enough already.

HAS CANCER BECOME A BUSINESS

Whenever I hear a charity proclaim "help us find a cure for cancer" I want to vomit. Let's say someone invented a magic pill and it took all cancers away. Any idea how many millions of people would then be unemployed? Therefore, it is a bu…

Indicted

He won't see any jail time, this is a misdemeanor at best, statute of limitations has expired, and a change of venue for a trial will likely be granted into upstate NY, which is Trump Country. They have tried to impeach him twice, blame hi…

What is the excuse today Nov 20 2022

Italian, I did get a prompt response from Support, I just wonder how many people saw my tagline as "Happy Thanksgiving Gobble Gobble". That is tacky and tone-deaf at best for a single male to be writing, pisses me off that it showed up and…

What is the excuse today Nov 20 2022

Couplefun, I just rewrote mine! They did get back to me and offer to restore it! But how the hell do they know they have an obvious problem, yet only react when someone complains?

What is the excuse today Nov 20 2022

Today's problem: My whole profile text was changed, someone put "Happy Thanksgiving Gobble Gobble" as my intro! Like who the hell is that going to inspire and attract??? Everything was different except for my stats and (thankfully) my cert…

What is the excuse today Nov 20 2022

Italian, I'm not new, but the issues the past two weeks or so have been really exasperating. The OP said shut the site off completely and fix everything at once so i suggested to do so on 1/2/23.

What is the excuse today Nov 20 2022

The latest problem I am seeing is that the Hot Dates (which were taking forever to load yesterday) are now willy-nilly as far as distance - not in order from closest to furthest. I agree with a previous poster, just shut off the whole thin…

Fact Checking DJT

onehelluvaguy, please see C&P below from legaldictionary dot net: Definition of Checks and Balances Noun 1. A system in which various divisions of an organization have powers that affect or control other divisions, so that no division beco…

Fact Checking DJT

"Orange Man bad" is all the Dems have to offer. I am very pleased the Republicans got the House back, but the Senate is still blue. That will keep one party from running away unchecked - this is what the founding fathers intended - "Checks…

Fact Checking DJT

I appreciate your enthusiasm for bashing Trump, Scampo...I am sure the next 103 weeks until the election will be interesting. Oil reserves - You do realize that Biden sold some of them to China? That's a bit of an oversight. Only $7B in eq…

Newbs to the scene

EdandBritney, sure, I would bet there are nights where there are too many "drones" in attendance. Every night has its own dynamic.

Newbs to the scene

There is a great little LS club up your way called Secret Pleasures in Emmaus. It's like an old speakeasy, building is from the 1860's, you walk down a dark alley to get in the back door! Mark the owner is a good guy and will show you arou…

Monkeypox

tbrm....okay you got me. But there has really has been almost zero coverage of monkeypox since Monday. You still have a better chance of being struck by lightning or being bitten by a shark as I see it.

Monkeypox

That's okay, it's off the radar now and no longer a threat after the Trump raid. And COVID cases/deaths dropped like a stone here in NJ. Amazing, huh?

How many of you are bareback optional?

Thanks for the engaging feedback! Yes I realize the COVID shots aren't free, it's clearly a matter of which drug company lobbied hardest and got the contracts to supply the product. And they are the gift that keeps on giving with new boost…

How many of you are bareback optional?

Pretty amazing that COVID shots, and boosters X2 X3 that are now proving to be of little or no benefit are totally free, but these vaccinations are $750! Follow the money folks!

How many of you are bareback optional?

Excellent topic...I have been vasectomy safe since Bill Clinton was president (had kids really young). That said, I think once you get through kissing and oral sex, so many fluids have been swapped by that point that putting on a condom fo…