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RonKathy wrote: Todays single male award goes to this guy after being told NO for a one sentence profile and not one photo in his public profile.. he begs the following " Your missing out. I get hard and stay hard for a sexy lady like you…
My wife and I play together (from a different account), and also play solo. We started out strictly playing with couples, but as we gained experience, we grew more confident about what we wanted, and also about relationship risks -- we are…
Speaking as a man who plays solo occasionally: On one hand, the hordes of men who lie, who cannot engage in written communication, who flake out, who whine, who generally cannot behave as normal decent human beings -- the vast number of th…
MandC508: Yes, free members include both people with questions, and scammers. But those questions are probably best addressed by a wider audience, instead of a conversation with one profile. Ideas: - The Getting Started forum. I agree, thi…
MandC508 wrote: I'd give Free members three days or even possibly one full week with full & complete access. That gives them plenty of time to check out and use all the features. If they don't pay after that, I'd limit their access to look…
entirelyreal wrote: I won't lie, being good looking and carrying a big stick are serious advantages. But a man can go a long way by being a good guy who is polite, reliable and a good conversationalist. If a woman or couple is looking for…
entirelyreal wrote: My late husband and I were swingers the entire time we were together. I won't even meet men with no Lifestyle experience. I've tried and it's a waste of time even if they tick my other boxes. It's not my entire existenc…
To respond to the original question: it’s tough, as a single male. BUT: being honest, decent, writing clearly, and being reliable puts you ahead of 99% of the men out there. Have a well-written profile, with some good photos. Communicate o…
I’m in a different situation — married, we swing, and also play solo. I have found conventional dating sites to be almost useless. OKCupid was good years ago, but not lately. One story though: I tried bumble for a while. I met a woman who…
I'm going to post about two encounters, with some interesting similarities. Meeting people online works best for me. I write to anyone I find here who is nearby, attractive, and whose profile indicates that they would be open to me (I don'…
Can't enter a location. I start entering a city name, and the dropdown box has just a comma in it. If I try entering the zip code, the dropdown has foreign addresses. If anyone who actually works at SLS is listening: This website appears t…
And a third problem: I couldn't submit my post until I remove apostrophes and exclamation marks from the subject line. Come on guys. This is ridiculous.
Hot Dates is down. The pages just doesn't load, even after 1/2 hour. So I went to submit a support ticket, and that doesn't work either! First I got an error message when I submitted it. Tried again, and the support page dropdown is missin…
My initial reactions to the messaging system (now that it is the only way to communicate): - Better organization of mail. The opened/replied/deleted/... folders were a terrible design. - Message history is better under the new design. You…
Funny stuff going on today. 1) Accessing the site brings up database error messages. 2) Who Viewed Me data is gone. 3) If you are a reviewer, there is a new section: mobile app pics. - I suspect that #1 somehow caused #2. The question is w…
Is IM supposed to work at all? They reimplemented it, and for a while a badge indicating a message would show up in the IM Messages box (next to Mail). Now, not so much. I am missing attempts to communicate with me. If anyone from SLS is l…
Invited to a house party, didn't know anyone there. This stunning woman (unicorn) walks in, shortly after everyone had moved to the play rooms. I cannot stop staring at her -- great figure; beautiful, natural tits; perfect skin; pretty fac…
Replace the email system.
"The power of accurate observation is commonly called cynicism by those who have not got it." George Bernard Shaw
As others have hypothesized, it seems that people posting photos (and maybe profiles?) I've reviewed are showing up in my WMV list. I suspect that my viewing of their picture causes me to show up in their WMV list, and then they check me o…
How about we allow NSA, CIA and FBI to do what they do best watch , spy whatever you want to call it but make our country, families and communities safe! They HAVE been spying on us, and at least as much under Obama than Bush. While we hav…
More snow. Shit.
No place left to put the snow. I actually had avalanches after piling the snow too high. But I still have internet and power. So this is a big storm, but not historic. So far.
toomuchfun52: Ergonomics! Little adjustments might help your arm. I had terrible wrist and upper back pain which went away completely after I raised my monitor, got a better chair, and got a real mouse (instead of using the one built into…
Receiving end of three last night. Awesome party!
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... but it isn't very good. You can only use it from your phone, through a browser, not an app. And you can't upload pix not on your phone.
... aaaaaand it already exists. Check out mixxxer. Found it googling "tinder for swingers".
Idea for having swingers identify each other in public: An app on your phone that signals you when it detects the app running on a nearby phone. For best results, you'd have to be running your GPS, otherwise you couldn't be assured that yo…
LT: I don't know for sure, I just go by what the google tells me.
Yes, it does sound like Yogi Berra. But it's actually Buckaroo Banzai.
Wherever you go, there you are.
Just had a nice Balvenie Doublewood 12, neat.
Can someone explain the ongoing interest in vinyl? I grew up with vinyl 33s and 45s, and while I loved the music, the medium sucked: changing a record or flipping it over every 20 minutes, scratches, pops, clicks. And even if you kept your…
School Days by Hector's Pets. If you love old school guitar-heavy rock, check out the video on youtube. The video is really funny too.
