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Silver & Spicy and Sexy Silvers are two different groups that each focus on older lifestyle couples, typically 50+. Silver & Spicy offers weekend hotel takeovers in Pennsylvania about 3 times a year. Sexy Silvers sponsors week long trips t…
We have been occasional swingers for about 10 years now. Like you, we have never has a threesome. She says she is not interested in that. The only type of MFM I can foresee would involve the male half of a lifestyle friend couple. That’s a…
My wife votes “Prefers Not” on facial hair. Not a dealbreaker, but a definite preference.
We have always wanted to do a nude/swinger yacht charter. It is a bucket list type activity for us, but unfortunately we don’t have any experience about how to accomplish it.
We have done both and concluded Hedo is better for us. There are so many people on a cruise. Might meet a nice couple on day 2 and never see them again all week. We prefer less crowds and the opportunity to be almost alone when we want tha…
We agree that camping is a great way to meet a new lifestyle people. You will already have common interests with fellow campers, which makes it easier to get to know them. There are always plenty of activities easily available to do togeth…
We are looking forward to connecting with new couples in our age group. Been off and on for the last two years, but hopefully this will be a better year. We hope good things can happen by patiently staying in the game.
For us, the possibility for scheduling a second play date would depend on the reason the first playtime went bad and how bad it was. Initial encounters can be awkward since each couple is still feeling out the other couple’s likes and disl…
That was an excellent article, FL. Seemed like a realistic critique of the physical and cultural challenges we could face with our sexually as we age. No one likes to think about this, but there were some good thoughts in the article for d…
Our favorite was a baby blue 1962 Thunderbird hardtop, also known the Bullet Bird due to its styling. It was in my wife’s family since it was new. But when we got it, the car had not been driven in 20 years. We restored it mechanically and…
Glad it was a great week, ro. We had an awesome trip with the Sexy Silvers last May and are looking forward to returning next May.
We enjoy traveling and have traveled quite a bit since retirement. While we think it would be fun to travel with another couple, LS or vanilla, we rarely do that because it is not easy to find compatible couples to tour with. Interests dif…
We will be there too. Can’t wait!!
We are scheduled to go to Hedo for a week starting May 1. The trip was rescheduled from last May. We get our second vaccine shot next week, which is a prerequisite for us to go. We are so ready for some fun times. But the COVID testing to…
We were also postponed from the May Sexy Silvers trip, but need to wait until next May to return. We will be thinking about you and hope everyone has an awesome time next week!
We have paused our LS activities as well. As far as a vaccine, we will follow the science. As soon as an apparently safe and effective vaccine is available to us, we will take it, as long as we are comfortable that the approval process is…
We are on hold from swinging as well. We are also taking major social distancing precautions in all social interactions. That is likely to continue until there is a vaccine or effective treatment. But since that could be a year or more awa…
Messaging has been down for us for a couple of hours. But the old email system, now just used for group notices, is working fine.
We are still interested and active. Does seem harder to find other compatible couples locally as time goes on. Playtime more often involves traveling or visitors lately, which we are also good with.
We really enjoy swinger events focused on our age segment. As mentioned, SLS and the Simply Living Silver Group sponsor trips to Hedo II in Jamaica every May and October. We are excited about going on the trip in May. In addition, an SLS g…
You all have digressed into a discussion of Rhombas! I’m loving the talk about senior sex living in your location. FL, sounds like you have done a great job of maximizing privacy settings. I like the idea of reinforced ceilings for enterta…
I absolutely agree. Bring back the email system. Although I use IM occasionally, I like to make and receive a first contact through email. I need more than a one liner to decide if communicating with someone is worth the effort. Also, once…
We think this is a fantastic idea and would definitely try to attend. The Carolinas, Georgia or Florida would be great for us. We have been to a few other events that focused on our age segment and they were awesome. Just seems easier to l…
We have done both and prefer Hedo. First and foremost, we are not big fans of cruises and relax more at a resort. There are so many people on the ship, that it can be hard to find someone again after first meeting them somewhere on the shi…
We went to Hedo for the Sexy Silvers event last May. Of our ten trips to Hedo, it was definitely the best trip. There were around 80 couples in the group, so it was not hard to find couples we clicked with. Marc and Carley from Topless Tra…
Our suggestion is also to eliminate the possibility to read a message without showing it has been read. It is very frustrating to send a message and not know if the recipient has received it and read it. Most people click on the bird to re…
Interesting analysis, JackDarlene. I did a little testing and it looks like the maximum search results is 1000. In our area, the search results for all members was either 999, 999, or 1000, no matter what distance was chosen. When I limite…
