It is insanely hard. We are not pushy, normal but very erotic minded and would love to open our home to other hot couples with Bi males for non-judgmental play parties but it is like a second job. We are selective but it really should not be so hard. When we travel, we always find a small group of hot bi people.
It is difficult, even in a big metropolis. So many sites etc... We want to have parties for couples with a bi male at our home and finding quality guests is more difficult than we ever imagined.
Hard to find, but worth it when you can. In our experience when bi couples find each other the vibe is very much “OMG, another bi couple! We can’t let these guys get away!”
I just want to say it is so refreshing to finally see so many folks openly show their sexuality. It has sure taken years for this to occur. It is truly amazing. While the case of most of them not being near me still exists it is still nice to search or see who is on and all the bi or bi-curious males listed now showing up. Kudos!!