Hidden Profiles

New Orleans, LA, Us

Let’s break this down so it is easy for even you to understand parec

We, as a couple are open to meeting single males. But if we get tired of the inane, mundane one liner emails from said single males, our only option is to hide our profile from them. Now we will still want to look at a guy’s profile to see if we would be interested in meeting him so let’s say we click on your profile. In your opinion, we shouldn’t be allowed to view it. That just ruled you out as a potential playmate. Congratulations! You won! You sure showed us!

So we just move on to view the next guy’s profile and invite him over.

The whole “if I can’t see yours you shouldn’t be able to see mine” whine is self defeating. You remove yourself from the pool of candidates.

As was previously suggested, if we had the option to block contact but allow viewing, we may choose to do that. It isn’t an option so this is where we are.

Don’t lIke it? Turn off the “who viewed me” feature and save yourself from having a stroke when you can’t reciprocate viewing someone who has looked at your profile.

~S~

parec60Member
Titusville, PA

Rabbit an Scamp , you missed the point completely if you want to block singles block them individually in case you think that you might become a swinger in the future / you block all singles then you shouldn't be able to view thier profiles since they can't view yours / thats the gist of this thread !! not that you can stand in the shadows and view others profiles while hiding behind a block of a group !!

New Orleans, LA, Us

Does anyone bother to read what was posted previously before making the same complaint over and over?

Cplofunswingers (Hi guys!) explained it concisely and the single guys who want to be blocked by couples are shooting yourself in the foot when the couple decides to search for a guy to join them.

That said, I agree the site should allow you to limit what group can initiate contact, then allow that person to respond. If a couple has single males blocked from initiating contact but chooses to reach out to one, that SM should be able to view their profile and reply.

~S~

parec60Member
Titusville, PA

how about blocking the one who block single males ? they don't need to see my profile if they are not interested in playing / just looking at my profile for thier wish list lol

Nashville, TN, Us

Completely agree! Please block those from viewing who block couples. This only seems right.

We get views from couples and single ladies but then the profile says they have chosen to have their profiles hidden from couples. That seems unfair that they can see us, but we can't see them. Idk maybe it has to be that way but it seems odd.

Danville, PA

Can't say I agree with the OP at all.

We have chosen to block single males because we don't like being bombarded by every single Male in a 100 mile radius, but that doesn't mean we aren't looking for them.

If SLS provided an option to block single men (or any specific type of profile) specifically from initiating contact with us, rather than blocking them from viewing our profile, that would be great. But since that isn't an option, we have to go with what is available to us, which is to block them completely.

We don't particularly care who is able to view our profile or our pics, we just want to have some control over who is able to initiate contact with us.

T

Albany, NY, Us

Actually, there should be a way to block or allow based on preferences. Perhaps a couple would like to find a bi Male to join them, but the way it's set up you have to allow all single men access. And that is annoying.

We agree, if they block you from seeing their profiles, they should not be able to view ours. That's the only fair way.

Scotts Road, Sg

There is one innocent reason blocked people may be peeking at a profile. They may be reading someone's Certs and clicking on the author to see who wrote it or to see the type of person they are playing/associating with?

I believe this because I travel a lot and get people looking at my profile from Certs that I have given out in their area.

parec60Member
Titusville, PA

what one thing would you do to improve the site ? read this thread and guess SLS !!! This has been going on far too long , you took away the mail and IMs from free members !! Now let the paid members block the people who block you on WVM ? its only fair

South Beloit, IL, Us

I Wholeheartedly agree!!! I'm sick and tired of couples/females looking at my profile and I can't see who's looking at me. If single males are such a bane, then quit looking.... Lol. I'm not a stereotype and I don't like being lumped in with them.

dick4u2Regular
Goodview, VA, Us

Same hear. If you are a couple and don't want a singe man looking at you? Why do you Look at Mine 3 or 4 times a week Let me see ! You want some and are afraid to say it? Or thinking may try that? Open up your profile and play That is why I am on hear.

Corpus Christi, TX, Us

We completely agree. Many times we see that our profile has been viewed only to be blocked

Charlotte, NC, Us

Absolutely agree!!

JawwgeRegular
Bedford, PA

Those who hide their profiles from a given demographic should not be able to view who they're hidden from.