Entitled couples

"The problem with single men is they don't read the profile they just look at the pics..."

Do you think that a guy is going to actually read a profile with a default profile picture like the one that you use?

Speaking for myself, I do tend to be more tolerant of couples not reading profiles that singles. Part of that is that we aren't really looking for singles of either sex outside of a LS party.

An interested single could still get my attention if he/she simply asked what parties we attended, or showed that they at least read our profile in some other way.

While we could still have fun with either even if they didn't read our profile, I tend to be a LOT more interested in someone that has. When I'm interested in a couple I read their profile to find out what they do, and if mentioned, don't like. I do that because I care about that, and I assume someone doing the same cares about what we do and don't like.

Pleasing others also pleases us. What better way to please others than to find out what they do and don't like? This applies to in and out of the bedroom activities. This is our (not so) secret sauce for LS success.

In general people do not read things.

I send out numerous contracts. They are always edited to be a page or less. Other than a few unavoidable technical terms they are written at about a sixth grade reading level.

More often than I care to think about people sign them and send them back, either neglecting the down payment (Oh, I did not see that.) or asking a question that is specifically answered in the contract.

Problems with Profiles does not surprise me. Laziness or very poor comprehension is there all of the time.

in defense of single males couples are the same way, my wife is straight and it says so on our profile but we get asked to meet all the time and the couple always talks about the girls getting together for girl time. when told she is straight and not interested in that they will either stop communicating or just block us. so couples do not read profiles either.

The problem with single men is they don't read the profile they just look at the pics and they want pics and have no pics of them selves and can't follow simple instructions as for how my profile is set that's my business and I will set my profile anyway I want it for my liking not for single guys and there's a reason there single in the lifestyle

Beachcouple7386 - "If their profile is not blocking all SM it’s probably because they are looking for SM on occasion and..."

In our case, we have an interest in SMs, but not online. We do however have SM friends from meeting them at parties, so we leave it open for SMs to contact us. While I certainly enjoy an MFM or MFMMM at parties with the Mrs, I also have other options. If we just have a SM over, our options are much more limited, and that seems to be what the majority of the SMs we encounter are looking for.

I did once try inviting 2 SMs over the house for an MFMM that actually showed, but that didn't work as hoped. We find that a lot of SMs in the wild can't perform around other guys. A favorite of the Mrs is being spit roasted, but that didn't happen. After trying to play with both guys together unsuccessfully, she wound up playing with each separately, but this wasn't what either of us was really looking for.

BTW @Beachcouple7386 - To your benefit, you do not have the "SMs, we'll contact you if interested" text in your profile. We know a number of quality guys and one raised a good point. He asked how we'd think if he had "Couples, if interested I will contact you" in his profile? He had a good point, and at least that quality guy would not be interested in someone because he feels they'd have met the criteria of the Topic.

We get overwhelmed by single guys many with no pics others who want our pics. Hey so many losers on here anymore. You are a hot sexy couple you don't need to lower your standards to meet some loser.

Got tired of reading all of the reply’s. If it says no SM then that’s what it is. If their profile is not blocking all SM it’s probably because they are looking for SM on occasion and have to unblock just to look which is stupid about this site IMO.

We often tell SM we are not looking for SM at this time even though we haven’t blocked anyone because, let’s be Frank, they were NOT what we were looking for. If a hot SM hits us up, our response would be completely different.

We turn down 99.5% of everyone that reaches out to us, we are inundated with messages all the time. We are extremely selective and it’s easier to say we are not looking for xyz than to say we aren’t interested.

It’s amazing to us how many epithet their feelings hurt when they get turned down. Lots of people shoot their shit and are not evenly remotely close to being on par with us. Is that arrogant of me to say, yes. Is it true, also yes.

Suck it up. View their profiles and if they are interested, they will contact you.

Entitled couple here....

Agree with the others. Just because a profile is public, it does not mean you have no responsibility to read it?
We specifically state that we will reach out to SMs if we are interested (so there are times we may be interested in them ... So why visible), but it is our call and we will reach out.
Still... We get the cut and paste responses shotgunned out to us from SMs that "love our profile" and think we are special. A profile which they supposedly read, stating we request no messages from SMs. How can you trust that person.

Really wondering where the finger of entitlement labeling should be pointing ?

Well said NH and MC !

NHSP: Exactly. Spot on. If you can’t trust them to read and respect, how can you trust them to play and respect?

Several that have contacted us believe that they are either the exception to our wishes, or that we should feel flattered that they breached out to us. Both attitudes are a turn off.

HW4Fun: If there’s a reputation that SLS is known for “single male bashing”, all you have to do is read through the forum to see why it’s a deserved reputation. Why do you think so many couples profiles have text related to single male contact? We rarely (if ever) have couples or single females contact us who blatantly fall outside our stated wishes. Single males do this regularly. Again, the reputation of single males is mostly deserved.

My question is WHY would any single male read a couple's profile that clearly states they are NOT interested in single males, THEN decide to contact them anyway, KNOWING they are not interested in single males, and THEN get pissed off because they were rejected and THEN call those couples "entitled", and THEN think they have the right to tell all couples what they can't post in THEIR profiles? Seems the only one thinking they are entitled is the single male who can't seem to comprehend plain and clear English. Don't go where you are not wanted and you won't have to have your feelings hurt by being rejected.
Just what every couple wants, a pushy, entitled, arrogant single male who feels that the couple's boundaries are not to be respected. If the couple says "don't fuck her in the ass", are you going to do it anyway, because the hell with their boundaries? We are open to single male play, but NOT if they can't read and respect what we have written. Example: Our profile says single males should NOT contact us without having multiple photos showing ALL of them. We will get a contact saying "want to play" with no photos. BLOCK. If you can't read, we aren't interested.

SLS is known for single male bashing and forum junkies.

Cool first post.

There are alot of flaky couples on here. More than once I've had conversations with couples or usually the wife and every thing is going great and I start thinking this might actually happen while being completely respectful and either get ghosted or blocked for no reason. It's completely disheartening... like I'm ready to close my profile and say fuck this site. I get it there are probably alotof creepy single guys but I try really hard not to be and always try to be respectful. They always ask to open my pictures and I do then they say nice pics or your cute then I ask them to open one of the 15 gallery's they have then block. Or some other bs excuse ugh

I take back what I said earlier

I always read folks profile if you don't you're setting yourself up for failure I don't know about anybody being entitled but I can say in my part of Texas where I moved to it's dry as hell when it comes to couples or single women I have to go into Dallas or down to bossier City it's not like it was when I was living in Houston

" the couples on SLS are quite entitled"

The couples on here eh? Perhaps you mean to say "some couples"

Im sure I speak on behalf of many couples here but We have never been rude to single guys on here, or anyone as far as that goes.

That is pretty disrespectful to the thousands of couples here that are not rude or "entitled" as you say.

Ahh Ones birthday wishes.. such great memories and we even gave them a night out at a nice hotel!

Smiles for weeks and the stories relived in our bed where also fantastic!!!!

Yes it does work !

@Travelers thank you! Appreciate the compliment. We are pretty much only looking for other couples. We like the security of those in long term relationships like ourselves, and agree with all your points about being able to accomplish those fantasies in a foursome. The birthday idea does seem great on paper, but I can see why you went back to couples. I will say that in the threesome setting there is something about all of the attention that can be given to one person. I love pleasing two women at once, and also when me and another male can give her all the attention. We just have one couple we are experimenting this with as they play separate and we've been with them as a couple already. I'll be interested to see how it goes because we don't play separate, so if down the line they want that experience with either one of us it could get tricky. Best laid plans right??

@smokinghotredhead: "Now we look for couples where they play separately to live out those fantasies"

It's been many years ago now but we connected with a local couple we really hit it off with and met with routinely. We decided to start a "birthday club" where whoever's birthday it was could choose a threesome with just the two guys, a threesome with just the two girls, or a threesome with just the other couple.

As good as it sounded on paper, after a couple of "test drives" we all decided we preferred the four of us being together. Throughout any evening, there is always someone who needs a drink, bio break, smoke, just a rest, or willing to play photographer for a bit. Plenty of opportunities for at least a brief threesome with whatever mix at times, without leaving a partner at home. It worked best for us, with that couple, at that time anyway.

PS - Your profile name aligns well with your photos. Smoking hot red head indeed!

We have been finding more and more it is a waste of time trying to connect with any worthwhile single guys on here anymore. Even couples are becoming a challenge. We frequent a couple of clubs and always meet nice people to play with.

We considered SM at one point and opened our profile to them. We were bombarded with messages with little to no substance. Guys begging us to open our pictures, them saying Hi, that's it, every single day. Open SLS and we'd have like 30-50 messages most of whom didn't even look at our profile. Then we'd get the extremely long messages that were just way overselling themselves. It just got so bad that we blocked SM again. Now we look for couples where they play separately to live out those fantasies

"Looks like the couples and singles on here all don't read I guess."

Couples are entitled to not read. Singles, not so much.

It's reading comprehension, attention to detail, and respect. When a profile asks for single men to Message with a well worded intro, and you get a message from a single man that says "Hey, what's up?", or you ask to not be contacted by anyone who us under 40 years old nd you get a message from a 34 year old single man that says "wanna meet?", then you aren't reading, comprehending, or respecting. And if you're not capable of that while messaging, how can we trust you do that in person?

We rarely have that problem/issue with couples or single females on this web site who message us. It's predominantly single men that do this, which contributes to the poor stereotype they have.

Every now & then we have received some very nice Messages from single men (on both this web site & others) that were thoughtful, well written, and interesting. Those always get our attention.