Curiosity

I tend to make use of the Notes in SLS as well and think that's definitely one of the sites better features. Changing up a profile pic will generally get another look, which is kind of the point in doing that. Once I click on the profile though I can see my Notes for them.

If I reach out to someone and get no repsponse, then I'll usually put that in my Notes. Saves time, as I won't reach out again because I figure I already have an answer regarding interest. About the only way that doesn't apply is if someone requests a new profile altogether and then my Notes won't apply.

We do get people that check out our profile on a regular basis and I have tried reaching out to them, but either get no response, or they aren't really here to meet. I think a number of those are in some version of fantasy-land.

Perhaps it's one or both of them are wannabe's, or wishful thinking on the part of the man, or any number of other reasons. Either way, we're flattered that people enjoy our pics and it has obviously enhanced one or both of their sex lives in some way, which is the whole point in being here.

It’s typically because they change the profile picture and we think it’s a new member. We try to use the notes feature when viewing profiles. We jot down what didn’t clicked and when we sent a message. We reference our notes when reviewing profiles so we don’t waste time. If we see someone that we like, we always reach out. There’s about a 20% message response rate.

HeHe... after reading the thread had to check out moekathy's profile ;-) To comment on this, yes we scope random profiles as the crop up on the new matches or if they looked at us or just if it looks like a cute couple or decent profile. Sometime we open pics as a gesture just to share and if there's a general interest or distance wise possible meet up we'd send a message to introduce ourselves and be friendly.

Eroticamaker, you are welcome to view anytime. We post the photos for everyone's enjoyment and we have a lot of fun setting up the photo. We get mostly (80%) silent views. By the way, it is true. Neither of us drinks alcohol, so winery meetings are not our thing!

Our current profile photo has an interesting story. It was taken last Saturday after an archery "miss". So I got a text from Kathy asking me to come over to help look for any signs of a hit (blood), and after not seeing any, we decide to move the stand to a more strategic spot. I suggested she does this naked and she agreed. This lead to some delicious fucking and an awesome anal finish!

moekathy consistently add some of the more interesting pictures within the DMV and she is gorgeous. They have told us in the past they are not wine drinkers and truth be told our bodies are not in the same class. We have no expectations of getting together. Nonetheless, when their profile shows up under Random Matches or maybe within the Forum pages, and a new profile pic looks interesting, we will stop and peek. If they are uncomfortable with us looking, we would not be offended by being blocked. Same with many other profiles. New and interesting profile pics may be well pull us to profiles over and over. If a profile speaks to us, we'll reach out in some fashion, maybe just a group invite, but something.

We get that sometimes. You don't get a message because the viewers like the photos but decided the odds/interest of meeting are low or nil.

We have looked over a few profile that are eye candy to us but we are not in the age range they seek so we admire from afar.

Some folks just like reading profiles, others will forget that they already looked at a profile and decided they weren't a match, still others are interested but don't want to make the first move and they're hoping that if they look enough you'll reach out to them first. Etc etc. Lots of reasons, and you'll probably never know which ones apply, so don't worry about it.

If you're interested in someone, reach out. If not, and the constant views kind of creep you out, block them and move on.

How many people go back to the same profile over and over with intentions to reach out but don’t? What’s stops you from saying something?