Consistency to Rules/TOS?

Humans run the website.

Humans are not consistent.

<p><a href="https://www.swinglifestyle.com/profile/lookup.cfm?usercode=49498672">ItalianGinger4u2</a>,</p>

<p>I noticed that you have a group. You cannot post hot dates for your own events, so maybe that was the issue. Someone else can post a hot date that they will be at your event, but you cannot do that since you already have it posted as an event.</p>

<p><a href="https://www.swinglifestyle.com/profile/lookup.cfm?usercode=49498672">ItalianGinger4u2</a>,</p>

<p>I highly doubt that you have had hot dates removed for stating where you will be or for the word "swing". Both of those would be ok. If a hot date is mentioning a cost, it needs to be removed. Someone approved it in error. You can report that. If someone posts a hot date for an occasional "non-professional" party, that is ok. </p>

welcome to the internet

I wish there was consistency among the rules and TOS here. We've had Hot Dates disapproved for simply stating where we are going to be, yet today there is a listing I see for a house party that pretty much breaks most of them. Mentions sex and clearly states a cost involved to attend yet somehow that one is ok and posted. We've had Hot Dates declined for containg the word "swing" - no joke... I had to post it as sw*ng" to get it to approve. I just am trying to grasp what the standard is or is it constantly evolving? Are others having as many issues?