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Hey what about just seeing bands
And beer like NWBOHM or punk and jazz I mean if you’re going to interview yourself with couples or ladies Even Goth is my Scene Goty metal punk jazz with Barbecue and beer and win…
0replies604viewsPhotographer
We are looking for a professional photographer in the tri state area PA, DE, NJ for boudoir photos. Anyone have recommendations? Thanks
by Sumfun961replies946viewsNot able to add, change or Edit profile
For the past year I have not been able to add, change, or edit my profile on SLS. SLS help has been totally useless; I sent 6-8 messages & still have the same problem. Back a few…
1replies858viewsNo shows
Why do so many guys no show? My wife is smoking hot and we love to hotwife at least 50 men have agreed to meet and have flaked only 2 in the last 4 years have showed up and it was…
0replies757viewsRefined Search Options
I'm positive I'm not the first to suggest this but, the site should really consider adding a ethnicity option to the search parameters also choosing to allow individuals to to ide…
4replies1,220viewsWHAT no ones talking????
Hello during this trying time is anyone still playing. We continue to play safely, that is only with people that we know. We will be living in Lutz if anyone would like to meet us…
by MNJFLA5replies1,222viewsAre members messaging more now?
My wife and I are on sls after being gone almost two years. that time we had no success with couples, couldn't even get a message back after sending a birdie. Admittedly we update…
0replies617viewsHas Covid Stopped Swinging Play Dates ?
Wondering if the fear of Covid or Corona has stopped swing life style play dates ?
by wantalern20replies1,806views- 0replies1,639views
Looking for a mate
Any Deaf F or ASL friendly single F? S or bi, i dont care. Im SM looking for FWB, maybe partner.
by W00dy450replies698viewsBoise House Parties
We wanted to find or host a recurring house party, since we haven’t found one yet. But haven’t met met enough couples yet. Contact if interested.
0replies611views2 sentence descriptions--are you kidding me???
Seeing tons of profiles of late that consist of a whopping 2 or 3 sentences total.Really? Don't even know if they are worth taking seriously--especially the ones with not even a c…
by sneezy696replies1,220viewsBetter Profiles
We have been in the lifestyle for a few years. We have redone our profile several times and added and deleted photos. We are a fun couple both in and out out the bedroom. We are l…
by MNJFLA3replies1,266viewsCertifications. How important are they?
Certs are basically meaningless to us, unless we know and respect the ones who wrote them. Other than that, it's just reading how these strangers like those strangers. We have met…
28replies2,503viewsGreen dot
I'm sure this has been addressed but if I'm looking on my SLS home page and I see a Green Dot in the right-hand corner does that mean that person is currently online
by yeaokay3replies1,377viewsHow to Figure Out if Others Will Swing or Not?
Always wonder people we know or people we meet if they will swing and play or not? It's sometime hard to figure out a way to bring the topic of swinging and fucking. We always won…
by wantalern0replies780views- 0replies850views—
New as a couple
We also find it difficult to find couples in our area especially since the Covid crap. I can tell you if we were in Fla. we would be interested. Keep trying you will find the righ…
0replies886viewsCovid
Not sure if this has been addressed yet on the Fora: what are your on-going concerns or lack thereof of the covid virus? Is everyone still dating or are you staying home til it's…
by yeaokay6replies1,639viewsMessages not loading
Been trying all morning on phone versus desk top computer. Cannot load messages They just keep loading. Site down again? Maintenance on a Monday morning? ( Good a time as any I gu…
by yeaokay1replies516views- 7replies901views
Singles, couples into aviation
Im a mature bi wm in the Southeast looking for swingers into the aviation scene. Former USAF Pilot, airline pilot, flight instructor and aircraft owner here. Would like to meet, c…
by BiPilot70replies579viewsNew profiles/members
What is up with all the new people on sls??. Profiles showing they just joined in the last five days sending the most inappropriate messages, not reading profiles. Crude and rude.…
by yeaokay11replies1,211viewsSwinging over?
Is swinging as we have known it over? Will we feel safe to gather in groups again? Let alone be intimate with 'strange swingers?
by yeaokay11replies1,863viewsRisks of corona infection in a LS cruise and cancellations.
The number of cases of corona virus infections is expected to increase in the next two months. What kind of guarantees and protections are offered to prevent anyone to get sick? I…
by Hotvenusians1replies765views- 2replies1,097views
NJ hotwife
My favorite profile pictures of single gentlemen are of those wearing a suit. No spelling mistakes in profile and avoidance of the words "cum " and " sexy". Too much time on my ha…
by yeaokay3replies1,058viewsSwingers parties in Hawaii (Oahu)
Several couples including ourselves are in need a host for sexy parties. Our home is not possible but if anyone has suggestions or willing to host please let us all know.
3replies663views- 56replies2,803views
Remove Stale Topics!
‘Business’ = 100 days since last post ‘Lingerie’ = 65 days since last post ‘Affiliates’ = 37 days since last post Yet, good suggestions for new forums (by paying subscribers) are…
by ckmate20200replies549views- 5replies1,199views
IPhone 6 Video
We filmed a video at a recent party with all participants agreement. It runs about 60 minutes. We would like to make four 15 minute videos. Any suggestions on how to do this?
by brstlcpl2replies1,475viewsPeople I've friended-the message button not green?
They show on my friends list(some show as online), does this mean they have not accepted my friend request? Some are green some are not. Thx
by EdNEPhx7replies907viewsBars
Are there any bars/nightspots, in the lower bucks pa area, that lifestyle people frequent?
by Newto720replies651viewsNew forum for party hosts?
I would like to suggest a forum section just for party hosts. We could share ideas, and suggestions. That would be most helpful for me.
by WannaTry8089replies1,283viewsOld Calander
Does anyone know how to get to the old calendar? This new format kind of sucks big time.
by gamboltwo0replies563viewsThe largest sex site on the web?
Cruising thru the new members I noticed something so I had to go check. Yep, I did see something! They say that this is the biggest on line sex site (by numbers). Is this true? No…
by dragonrapide5replies1,780viewsCuckolding
I see the lifestyle of cuckolding the husband (or boyfriend), as different from swingers where couples like to meet for adult play. I know there are many levels to cuckolding your…
by Gandhhotspot1replies1,209viewsCuckold
If you are doing the whole hot wife fantasy Why is that The profile is hidden from single males doesn't make sense
0replies787viewsCuckold
If you are doing the whole hot wife fantasy Why is that The profile is hidden from single males doesn't make sense
0replies651viewssearch feature
Why does the search feature just shows you who is on in your area when you type in another city name? Looking for people in Indy and I get local who is on.
by TwoHoosiers12replies1,237viewsIm
I guess I am getting ok with the new method of contact. The issue I have is, I don't know if or when the couple reads my IM. At least with the mail it told me when the mail was op…
by fun180704replies632viewsHRT
Have any post-menopausal ladies tried the new hormonal pellets that go in your butt? I am very interested in others' experiences with them. Also, a man contacted me and said he ha…
by yeaokay3replies736viewsUnappealing profiles
I have six weeks of free time and I have been looking at road trips , new friends and especially the Forums. I have seen many unappealing profiles: Many, many stressing, rather th…
by yeaokay2replies717viewsI just want to experience a bbc or black woman
If you're just looking here on SLS you need to fix that profile. It's pretty much a disaster. I can see why you're getting no interest. Check our the better profiles and see the a…
by AandJinNNJ1replies851viewsSecret facebook groups?
Looking to join some secret facebook groups. We seem to be getting the wrong response on sls. Looking for a chemistry type of dynamic. Last couple of encounters were kinda awkward…
1replies1,993viewsDoing a good job with the wife
We have a good time together after I see how she really does my friend in front of me a it open her to a new place with sexual pleasure for both of us
by jus4fun1200replies824viewsBanned word list request.
After 20 minutes of trying to figure out what word violated their hot date protocol I discovered finally it was “swing”....On a SWINGer site! Hmm...that is just moronic. Does anyo…
4replies900viewsShould paid members have to open emails before able to read them.
First off this doesn't apply to everyone as there are some polite people on this site. I was just wondering how often it happens to others on this site. You send someone an email…
by Master19645replies725views- 0replies797views
