Oh and I do like playing with my dick and would Love to find a woman who would like to play with it too as I play with her special places....plus most of the women my age still loving the lifestyle are already spoken for or no longer into it
I'm hardly new to this lifestyle but I am to this internet stuff.....The Vast majority Every debaucherous act I have participated in and the people I participated with during them came from swinger publications, papers, etc....Don't get me wrong there certainly were fakes but it just seems to be more now.....it's like they get off on the process but not the activity itself......but what do I know...
Got another reply today from a guy that wanted to know what our names were and what side of town we lived on as well as some other questions that didn’t really pertain to anything he really needed to know. I felt as though we were being asked questions to figure out who we were instead of what we were looking for. It really does make me wonder who these people really are.
One more thing.. if we do find a guy who wants to meet after a brief IM and he has met all we have in our profile.. we set up a meet, and its off to one's bedroom quickly that night.. any games, stalls, or I cant meet, excuses after excuses we block these guys and write notes about them..
The good one we just met ...not only came to our home 2 weeks ago offered to play at his home a couple days ago.. BINGO its that easy!
I have tried several sites and they all seem to be about the same with fake responses. I think that these are not all random flakes and wannabes but they are a well organized group of individuals out to disrupt the free choices of married couples. Their tactics range from befriending and encouraging you on your quest then asking for updates on your success to leading you down a dead-end pathway and then ghosting you just when you thought that you had something going.
Let us add.. since this AM 3 guys, all have one line profiles, one photo or NO photos in public view, .. those things in itself tells volumes.. we tell them if you cant abide by what we have asked in our profile.. WE ARE NOT A MATCH!
Amazing all the lazy guys, flakes and wanna bee swingers!
We have been on here for a few months and haven't had any success at all in finding a playmate for my wife. All that we seem to get is endless dialog with no chance of ever meeting because of their busy schedules or other lame excuses. I can't understand why this has to be so difficult. I think that we are at the point of doing a bar pickup or going to a swing club.
I agree about all the fakes. We've been stood up so many times. We've definitely learned to not have any expectations at all until they actually show up
I agree about the many married guys cheating. Many we have chatted with basically have the same story. Wife not putting out. No sex drive Yad yad. Most of the wives also refuse to go get some testing done for low hormones and get on the good meds to fix the problem. So, what is a man in his mid 40's who still has a high sex drive to do?
Many fakes on SLS or lets say wanna bee swingers. But a good one.. once found is fantastic, we have several .. good luck and vet all!
Many more guys on SLS who are now cheating , single profiles, married wife has no clue they are on SLS.. we have met some and quickly move on, etc etc !
Seems more guys on here would rather play with their own dick than playing with a real woman
