Too many certs?

We don’t see anything wrong with that, it just shows that they enjoy themselves and life

While I agree that sexual variety is kind of the main point of swinging, in the end, everyone has their own tolerance for risk. It's hard to control and verify, but if people wish to take that path, who am I to say that you're defeating the point of swinging. Some are happy to swing once every few months or so. Others won't engage Bi males specifically because of potential for what they feel are people involved in risky behavior.

One can ask potential partners to see recent STD test results before they swing, but there is no way to tell if the person providing those results has been with dozens of people since taking the test.

I actually had a couple reach out once that expressed a need to be discreet because they were supposed to be exclusive with another couple or two and didn't want them finding out they were playing with others.

This is a funny topic...isn't the point of swinging to play with others...? foursomes, threesoes, orgies etc ...and then people judge that "but you're playing with too many people!!: Doesn't seem very intuitive... punishing the point of swinging.

" ewwww involved."

LOL

Stay in the lifestyle long enough and you'll reach 60 couples without much trouble or any ewwww involved.

Certs aren't necessarily about having had sex with people. You're certifying that you have met someone in person and that a couple is a couple, a single woman is a single woman, etc.

mayhem - any time I've seen a party host/organizer with a lot of certs it appeared that their swing parties were a business and often quite large.

While we attend AND have our own parties, I rarely get involved in certs. I suspect the more people rely on online interations for meeting people in general, the more important they become to those people. Again, profile info does not even come into play at a LS event unless there's a visible SLS sign-up page showig attendees, and even then, it may not matter much.

All of the certs we have given were because someone we met asked us for one and decided to return the favor.

I don't know how common it is but I've seen it occasionally with couples that state in their profile that they organize and host regular parties.

Too many certs does raise a flag for me. If you read them however most often they attend parties, hotel takeovers or cruises and played with several at each event. Those typically have a bunch of certs given on or around the same date. Other times they did not play but just met others. However a few seem to be real bed hoppers. One other observation is some have been playing for over 20 years. 4x certs a year can add up!

@P&W is that commonplace? I’ve seen a few.

Did you read all the certs - do they indicate meeting & playing or just meeting?

Some people that host parties give and receive certs only to acknowledge that a profile belongs to real people.

You can choose to be discerning. .

Considering Mr Ed is a horse does that even master? It just seems ultra lose couples area
Bit gross and if they hook up with you they are just looking for another cert.

Over what period of time?
Some people will fuck a barn yard animal or wet garbage if it feels good.

It doesn’t seem like there’s much genuine desire or attraction if the person tells you you’re beautiful and then screws someone who resembles nothing so much as Mr Ed.

We were recently contacted by a couple with over 60 certs. My first impression is kind of eww, I get it we will sleep around but over 60? Seems a
Bit gross. Groups thoughts?