PARTY RULES FOR COUPLES PLAYING

Well said SOC.. Well said!

We have few rules. One is that if we're at a larger house party or club, we always want to know where the other is and with who, just in case. It is extremely rare that something gets out of hand, but we've seen it happen to others.

The other is that we always use condoms for penetration. I get they are nowhere near 100% at stopping STDs, but we play with enough different people that it is as worth it to us to at least take some precautions.

The "both play or nobody plays" likely comes from some sense of fairness and opportunity. Women generally have more opportunity, even if at a couples-only party. In our case, I usually play a lot more than the Mrs, mostly by her choice.

If/when the Mrs is in the mood to let her inner slut out to really play, I never have a problem with it even if I wound up with no opportunity to play. We still have a sense of fairness, but it is just not measured by a single outing/party.

We don't really have a hard and fast rule about parties, aside from making sure to talk and check-in prior to any engagement.

We do have a same room rule and approach the LS more as a couple rather than two individuals. As such, we gravitate towards group play and are typically bantering with another couple or solo bi women. Likewise, we are both into kink. She is quite switchy, and we often co-top for impact and other such things.

Every now and then, we've gone solo, but it isn't typically what we are going for.

I responded to your other rant you posted.

When we go to a house party we generally try to find another couple to play with. If not, we make sure each of us has a playmate otherwise we won't play. If there is a second round of play then we may find other playmates separately.

We dont do house parties.. only play with those we know.. YES both of us play and always have !

Do you all have any rules for playing at a party? Our rule is that we both play or no one plays Obviously this does not always work. Just wondering what others expect when going to a party where there is a free for all.