Finding Playmates
Clubs, parties, conventions or online, where are all the swingers
Looking for a playmate or playmates during vacation.
My girl and I are travelling to Portland, ME the weekend of October 23rd. We were hoping to find a bi or bi-curious guy to join us for some fun one night. Couples are also welcome…
7replies950viewsHotel take-overs
Went to our first one this past weekend. It was fun, but not something we'd personally be in a hurry to go back to. We went with friends and the majority of our play time was with…
by mayhem816replies3,182viewsHusband want watch wife .
My wife is open to this Would like to meet for drinks dancing playing around in the club and take it from there.
by Awittlefun3replies1,478viewsHow hard is it to find a 4-way connection?
We see this a lot and someone commented recently in another thread about how hard it is to find a 4-way connection. We played with newbies one time and didn't realize we were thei…
by mayhem838replies4,449viewsEver been Led by flaky women?
So I have a dilemma and need as much advice as possible!!! (Not to say that these women were mentally flaky but not straight up honest and flaked on who claimed to be) I’ve wanted…
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does anyone like black guys on this site
I am sure if you read forums, groups, and profiles you will find them.
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Why quality better than quantity when it comes to swinging?
Most people we have encountered in the LS have been for quality friendships versus quantity in sex. In Kansas at least we see this as a trend and that has made us love being in th…
0replies428viewsNeeding Yankton playmate
It amazes me at how many just want to look and read profiles. I’m n the area for a few months...in need of a hard dick. No strings attached. I just want a fuck buddy. Why is that…
by Texasmedic572replies586viewsLooking for a third
Who knew it would be so hard to find a third!!! Looking to share my husband with another woman...I would love for all of us to have fun at the same time. In West Columbia, SC. Any…
4replies962viewsOverweight
How can you meet couples that you are attracted to, when your overweight. It seems like people see we are overweight and they pass. They don't give us a chance to get to know us.…
10replies2,837viewsBig fluffy dad bod type here
ladies and gentlemen just want to say ?? figure ill try a forum post. Looking to start some friendships on here so when the covid cover up is over we can hang out. Or for those ri…
by Xjayxx20replies1,567viewsCandles on a rail
Hmm at one time a series of candles or other artifacts made statements. Requiring real time interactions and basic exchange of verbal and physical interactions.
by PeaceMaker0replies517viewsAnyone enjoy their wife dating other men and coming home and telling you about
My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for quite some time we're always looking to push the boundaries currently we're looking to open our relationship and go out with other peo…
by Cnk052633replies6,143viewsLooking impossible ground for Single straight male
I am not new to this lifestyle but definitely new to this website. Talking to different people everyday, updated profile and pictures as much as I can by maintaining 100% honesty…
31replies2,913viewsGeneral tips for finding potential playmates
Thought this may be helpful as there are a couple things I do that I haven't really noticed being mentioned. Should be common sense, but.... I will look at couples that RSVP to lo…
by mayhem815replies2,366viewsBisexual woman looking for couple in Nashville TN
I need to be fucked good and hard. It’s been too long! Send me a friend request! Always down for meeting new friends too. It’s lonely in a new area.
by Spookybeach0replies605viewsAge Gap
Hello all! My questions to the group is: has anyone ever had issues or difficulties with an extreme age gap between yourself and your swinging partner? How did those issues work t…
41replies4,637viewsSeeking mature couples and woman in NJ
Seeking mature woman and couples in the Northern NJ area.Im a nice normal sane and respectful guy.Im VERY open minded into almost everything..Will respond to all
by Jamiec1112replies900viewsTeasing
Is it wrong for a woman to tease men, woman, couples and then not follow through with a sexual favor?
by LoversofLove15replies1,472viewsGeneral tips for finding potential playmates
Thought this may be helpful as there are a couple things I do that I haven't really noticed being mentioned. Should be common sense, but.... I will look at couples that RSVP to lo…
by mayhem80replies736viewsStill seeking to fulfill my fantasy
So I’m new to sls for about a month or so and still have not fulfilled my fantasies. Especially local members. I’m BBW who is bi curious and get more single male messaging then wh…
2replies879viewsCouple Seeking Female
We are a happily married couple looking for nsa fun. He wants to watch us play and if he's a good boy, I may let him play too....
by deeNdee52replies1,086viewsPineapples
Hey fellow swingers. I was curious about how far and wide the "pineapple" usage spreads. A little background...here in NC, a pineapple sticker symbolizes that you are a swinger or…
by GunzNBoltz6replies1,900views- 25replies4,222views
Single male looking for hotwife
Hello I'm a single male looking to have some good clean adult fun(: I'm from Pennsylvania Harrisburg reading area. I'm gentleman and respect what people want and am here to please…
1replies734viewsDoes open minded mean bi?
Relatively new to the site, trying create a better profile and understand profiles of others. Frequently i see it mentioned that the couple is very open minded. I believe that mea…
by kinkiez26replies2,943viewsFree members
Hi there, I have a question! I would like to contact a few free members but I’ve read that free members can’t read messages. How do you contact them then? Please advise! Thanks,
by SwingerinChi10replies1,765viewsOutdated profiles
We are finding so many profiles that are obviously outdated... For instance, one talked about going to Hedo3 (which closed 10 years ago) and Desire Cancun in 2008. That might be a…
8replies1,167viewsThe Neighbors Next Door
"The neighbors next door" I would love to hear some stories about the neighbors next door. I've never had any experience with a next door neighbor or even one down the street for…
0replies1,033viewsJust for Dinner?
Saw an ad for Just for Dinner Wondering if anyone has attended their events, and how they are. thanks!
21replies2,037viewsMiles
Has anyone else noticed that the miles away and actual distance is WAY off? I've learned to adapt the site's figure to the actual figure and move on, haha. It's sorta funny to see…
by AzDubs5replies777viewsAny ladies willing to help certify me?
The breaking in part usually comes before the cert. Essentially, you’re asking Car and Driver to review the latest model before they’ve driven the car. Why not start with offering…
by bridgetender6replies904viewsare Hot Springs a good place to meet other couples and singles who are interested?
Hi All, We've been to a couple hot springs in the Mountain West and have run across people who are very friendly. In hindsight we are wondering if these places are LS hook-up site…
1replies693viewsLong Time on SLS and no certs - red flag?
We are new to the site and trying to understand the lay of the land... We are primarily interested in couples but may entertain a single male on occasion to ... ahem... test our m…
27replies2,350viewsAny Bi Ladies In NC to join a couple during the day?
Looking for a Bi Lady who would be interested in having some fun with my husband and I during the day. We both work from home and kids are in school during the day so it is the be…
by FunCpl4U2Fk0replies490viewsNorthern minnesota bi guy looking to connect
Looking for singles or couples to connect with in the northbranch to hinkley area, can travel.
by Kinkufun11380replies564viewsMale looking for a female partner
Is there a female 40 to 70 who would like a male partner for meeting other couples in or near Jacksonville FL? I am no drugs, not pushy, respect preferences of others and give mas…
3replies1,372viewsVirginia Clubs
Maybe I'm not seeing it, but I've never seen a club event in Virginia, ever. I've seen events, parties at houses, hotels, camp grounds... I've looked in VA beach, Richmond, Roanok…
2replies749viewsAge preferences
Is it wrong to reach out if your are older ( within 5 years or less) than someone’s listed desired age range?
by curious_sims16replies2,284viewsFWB 4 hubby
Seeking a female that enjoys a great sexual time. In fulling hubby’s fantasies and yours. With my acknowledgment while I’m in Florida for a week. He wants to pleasure and be pleas…
1replies953viewsAny couples in rochester looking for a male third?
Like the title says, i am a young and hung third in good shape looking for a couple to join. I am in good shape and am completely into the lifestyle yet cant find anyone intereste…
by fitgummybear6replies699viewsLocal FWB'S please ??
We are in Howell MI and are looking for another couple (or more) for adult fun. Or a female for a 3sum. I Cain am available to women and couples by myself If you want that of cour…
0replies698viewsSwinging and ostomy
I have swinged prior to having one but now it seems once I disclose having it my messages are not replied back to. It does not affect anything sexually. Just an extra step at the…
by bmwarrior872replies842viewsLOOKING FOR WIFE OR SINGLE LADY FOR HEDO TRIP
Hi if your hubby will let you get away for a week for fun or if your a single lady who would love to get out of the winter for a week and have the time of your life IM ME
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