Finding Playmates
Clubs, parties, conventions or online, where are all the swingers
I have a problem
Not sure what I am looking for ..mainly to blow off some steam, I guess. Until kt long ago, I was always able to attract lovers. But...mother nature has NOT been so jkind to me ov…
by midagehippie1replies386viewsWe have encountered Flakes and Been Ghosted but this is new
In our search for new play partners, we've met all kinds of wonderful people -- sometimes we even make arrangements for second dates! Sometimes, people flake out on us -- they nev…
by sjbluebirds5replies565viewsSwinger symbology
Hey fellow swingers. I've recently been pondering about identifying our kind while out in public. I realize that it can be quite lonely being the only couple thinking the way we d…
by GunzNBoltz31replies3,887viewsDoes anyone else find it hard to find local playmates?
We live in a small town and there are a few couples in the area that are on the sls site. But the problem that we have is that they want talk or try to even give you a chance. My…
by RedandPJ3059replies6,943viewsI can admit I was wrong
Everybody here kept telling me to just shut up and go to a party/club and talk to people. Don't waste your time searching online profiles. But I wouldn't listen. I finally took yo…
by Ymichael149replies783viewsPARTY RULES FOR COUPLES PLAYING
Do you all have any rules for playing at a party? Our rule is that we both play or no one plays Obviously this does not always work. Just wondering what others expect when going t…
by MNJFLA6replies1,351viewsDoes the lifestyle have different fractions?
I'm still new here and there is something I noticed that most people here have in common and I'm just wondering if it is only common on this site, or is it the way most people in…
by Ymichael1447replies2,507viewsHOUSE PARTIES
"Yes my wife should have not played with the men and leave me sit there alone, but that happened... Again this is our final party as I am DAM tired of supplying my wife for other…
14replies1,653viewsLooking for a female or couple playmate in Florida Looking for an on going thing
Any woman or couples looking for a single male in Florida that would like an on going relationship Please message me Looking forward to hearing from you Erik
by Emarrero8130replies282views- 2replies645views
New here
Hi guys Ashley and will here we are new to the group but hope to meet some great fun new friends we can vibe with we are outgoing fun and have a very strong relationship we and a…
1replies526viewsUnexpected/funny ways to meet people
Every now and then, I find myself meeting and playing with someone in unexpected or funny ways. We went to a party this past Saturday and I had one of those funny and unexpected e…
by mayhem81replies1,152viewsDFW playmates
Looking for personals, contacts, websites, and others interested in the swing, bi, gay, and kink arenas. Enjoy meeting over coffee with others into or new to the Lifestyles
by BiPilot71replies691viewsUsing Hot Date feature or changing/searching destination Location - Which is better?
We're traveling to a Major City next week, and are looking for some adult playtime. Usually, we find playcouples by searching local to us, and making arrangements for an initial '…
by sjbluebirds20replies1,363viewsHAWTHORNE ON 27
MNJFLA - while it may not hurt to post this in the forums, I'd think you'd get a lot more local visibility by posting Hot Dates. The only downside from posting in the forums I can…
by mayhem80replies401viewsCam sex even .
My GF and I are just starting on this site and while we are looking for a single female or couple to meet up with, even an orgy to join in with, we would take a facetime or skype…
by Chrital28562replies1,246viewsWhy
Why is so hard to find people that won't flake on you? We spent 1 week setting up a meet this morning with 3 guys. They were anxious to get the chance to fuck her. Now, this morni…
by Fwb3176821replies1,609viewsDress for success
We attended an upscale meet and greet last evening. A few of the men were wearing baseball caps, some with printed T shirts, a few wore cowboy hats. It seems that they were not se…
by MNJFLA13replies1,118viewsAny Couples From MA We New To This
Hi everyone just looking for some cool couples to be friends in and out of the bedroom. Me & my gf Kate are new to this. looking forward to chatting with you all.
by Metalfan19874replies681viewsAtlantic City
Any F or couples want to play n AC? Male has hallpass and can host at beautiful oceanfront condo.
by azmaturecpl2replies623viewsAre there any guys who have experience hosting gangbangs?
We have a gangbang fantasy that we are exploring and I asked for help on another forum. Someone suggested there were guys who do this regularly. That they could host a gangbang ex…
by FunInMidwest14replies2,667viewsSIGNS AND SYMBOLS
Nothing.. we dont use symbols, flamingos, pineapples.. we seek out people we enjoy on SLS, events, parties or at a vanilla bar and take them home.. That simple ! Its called for "u…
by RonKathy0replies676views- 6replies1,548views
Add Lifestyle Definitions to Profile Preferences
It would be pretty cool if the Profile Preferences section had the option to select Lifestyle Definitions that Describe the Profile and Interests. Ours would look like.... We Are:…
2replies467viewsNo players on the playing field
So we are new to this and we've met a few cool people on here but for the most part there is nobody that wants to play there's a big filled out there with no players but us please…
39replies2,627viewsLooking for submissive wife
Looking for submissive wife that will be open to all sexual adventures
by Andynaugty3replies701viewsBang for your buck
When it comes to parties, do other people besides me even consider the "bang for the buck" factor? The thing that made me think about this is a conversation I had online on anothe…
by mayhem815replies1,738viewsContacting potential dates
Guys we have talked before.. stop blaming those on SLS it is just one avenue to swinging and a small one..get out to clubs, events and parties.. by this time one would think you w…
by RonKathy18replies2,018viewsLIFETIME MEMBERSHIP
We are disheartened when we see "free members" only to discover they pare probably just " peepers. " We paid our full lifetime fee and have met many serious players. Even those we…
by MNJFLA6replies1,039viewsPenis size
I have a 5” penis with ok girth. Now my question is- should I feel weird about size on here? It seems all women want big?
by Call997replies2,043viewsFinding other couples at events?
We just recently started going to different motorcycle rallies and bike nights, and were curious if anyone else has had any luck finding other lifestyle couples at these type even…
3replies737views- 4replies1,110views
How do people balance free time
Ok. So we can’t be the only people that in a normal year get about 10 opportunities to get out. We are trying to strike a balance between hanging out with people we have played wi…
by ToddNicole7913replies1,228viewsDo the Black Rings ever work?
Okay, we've been in the lifestyle long enough now and each have a black ring we wear on our right have ring fingers. We don't wear them every day, but whenever we think we may hav…
11replies2,927viewsTribbing match
looking to have a tribbing match you against my wife.... any ladies interested?
2replies772viewsCouple seeking couple - come get away with us
We've been trying for months now to find a couple that would like to meet over dinner and maybe some drinks and have had no luck. We have our thoughts as to why and understand tha…
by Hungie0replies661viewsAny Southeastern Massachusetts Couples Seeking A Young Bisexual Guy?
I am a 29-year-old male near Southeastern Massachusetts and putting out a request or ad per se for any couple that wants or is seeking a bisexual guy. I am seeking more than a one…
1replies461viewsEurope?
So heading to England soon, and tried to post a hot date. Unfortunately I was unable to add the European location. I kept getting rerouted to the login page after searching and se…
by tdiza3replies830viewsLooking for Regular Bull for my wife
We live in Raleigh NC, and I am attempting to find a regular bull for my hotwife. We are looking for a discreet, clean, fit and handsome, guy that has a large cock. Length needs t…
by Jvwildcpl5replies2,262viewsWhy quality better than quantity when it comes to swinging?
Most people we have encountered in the LS have been for quality friendships versus quantity in sex. In Kansas at least we see this as a trend and that has made us love being in th…
26replies2,112viewsISO Female Babygirl/Sub w/potential LTR
I am a 57 year old DD free man, who is in search of an ongoing FWB and/or D/S situation. I am looking for it to potentially turn into a Long Term Relationship with the right lady.…
by RJSOUDEN1replies564viewsCovid Shots
Has anyone gotten them yet? Do you feel safe to play? How do you let others know you have them and are safe to play? Is anyone playing not that held off as a result of covid?
by MNJFLA3replies666viewsFinding a fuck buddy
I know it should be easy, being in the lifestyle, but it's not. My hot lady has 4 fuck buddies and wants me to have one or more...I like that idea also. But...being painfully shy…
by midagehippie20replies3,327viewsMales in florida to entertain us while on vaction
We are looking for attractive male to host us while we are in florida grabbing sun on beach..
by shooter482208replies1,387viewsDesired age
It's the 4th section on every profile. If you don't fit in that age range, you have a low success rate of success. If it's over a decade, even a reaponse isn't warranted. A very l…
by magjoy7replies1,277views- 2replies920views
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Williamsburg Couples Weekend
We are looking to use some resort points and thought why not turn this into a fun, sexy adventure by adding two more couples to join us totalling 6 people (3 men, 3 women) to spen…
0replies730viewsI apparently attract crazy, uncommunicative weirdos
Had the following exchange with a SF who approached me this morning. Late 50s, one sentence in each part of her profile, a single public photo of her hair. That's it, just her hai…
by sorillo100014replies1,635viewsAre any hot in shape couple in nj
We been on this site very disappointed we can not find any couple that are attractive were not taking one for the team lot couple have pic of the girl none of the men wife has to…
by jjmss69778replies1,165views
