Sounds like a tall order to me, provided I'm not currently visiting Nevada or Amsterdam.
Looking for a third
"Who knew it would be so hard to find a third!!!" - That statement would only be surprising if you were looking for an SM. Easily over half of the couples here are looking for women, and there just aren't that many women to go around, and the ones that do exist can be super picky if they want.
It's probably easier to find a married women that plays separate, but even that may prove difficult as well. In some cases, they may want you to reciprocate, so if you're not willing to do that, that may decrease the pool of available women as well. Going to clubs/parties is likely going to be your best bet, as suggested.
Who knew? Literally everyone else. They call themselves unicorns for a reason. Would you want to be thought of as a "third"?
Once clubs open up, try there. Looking for a woman online is almost impossible.
Who knew it would be so hard to find a third!!! Looking to share my husband with another woman...I would love for all of us to have fun at the same time. In West Columbia, SC. Any helpful hints..

