What to change

So let’s talk about pictures.

One of your pictures failed to load. If you have access to an editing program-reduce your picture size to something that is 600 pixels by 800 pixels. If you don’t know how to do that-the easiest way of reducing picture size is send a picture via text message to your spouse and have them posted. The pictures should be converted or Downgraded in quality when it sent through the MMS messaging system.

I think your pictures so far are good. You’re a younger couple so you can get away with pictures of you not dressed up. My only concern is that you don’t have any full body pictures.

As much as we like to pretend that swingers are full of open minded, fun people, there’s a lot of self-centered assholes. There’s plenty of people who are not going to be able to look past the fact that the female half is 199 pounds-despite the fact that she’s 5’10”.

I don’t mean to hurt your feelings about this-but it’s the truth.

To get around this-I strongly suggest posting a full body picture To let people judge you on your figure not just your weight.

So I suggest posting a full body picture of both of you in something flattering. Maybe a maxi dress? Wear heels that are as tall as your feet can handle. Heels are slimming.

If you look good in a swimsuit-post a picture of the female half full bodied in a swimsuit. It’s even better if you can post the two of you together in swimsuits at a pool or beach.

So I suggest taking a full body picture of the two of you or of just the female half. Repost here in the forums and we can take a look and refine.

Hi and welcome. Your profile could definitely use some work. First, though, some advice. If you do not want single men to contact you, then change your toggles to reflect far less interest than in couples and women. And in the course of revising your profile, make it stand out a bit more that when you're looking for single men, you'll be the ones doing the hunting. That will cut down 75% of the mail you'll get from men.

Okay, so on to your profile. It's kind of a mess of clichés and poorly constructed sentences,, information in the wrong places, and a lack of interesting info about the two of you.

Your tagline makes no sense. Are you perhaps missing a word? Also, clever is better, but serviceable is fine. In Looking For, just say what you're looking for. Is it fun couples and single women, with the occasional single man when she's interested? Then say that clearly. If you're only looking for fun couples and you're less fussy about women (which is kind of the way it reads now), say that. The part where you love flirting? That belongs in Description. This is the section where you say who and what you're interested in.

In Description, you identify yourselves as bi-curious, but the details suggest you're not in the least curious but instead committed to and experienced with same sex play. That's confusing. Please no with the Ken and Barbie thing. Not only is it a cliché, it's generally a cliché used by people lots older than you. So, please, don't. I'm also confused about the mention of circumstances in which you'll take one for the team. If you clean up your profile to eliminate every other ambiguity, it might be a really good conversation starter, so there's that, but the way it is now is just a WTF moment.

I like the part where you talk about where you're from, but I'd like to know more about the two of you. What do you like to do? Hobbies? What kind of people are you, outside of sex?

Talk about your fantasies as well as your experiences and do not let that last section stay blank. It's your last opportunity to convince others that you are the couple they want to get to know.

So, maybe do some revisions and check back in for another review? I couldn't get your other two photos to load, so I have no opinion on them at the moment.

Hi guys.

Just wondering if there is anything you would change or add to make our profile more appealing.

Thank you very much

S&C