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Hi and welcome. The short answer is that if you were only interested in a single woman for an FMF/FFM you would substantially reduce the number of single women available to you here, because like me many of us are uninterested in unicorn hunters. If you are also sincerely open to couples as well, that will definitely increase your chances of finding compatible playmates for threesomes and foursomes.

As far as your profile, it could use a little work, but it's a really good first effort (which sounds but isn't meant to be patronizing). I like how appealing it makes you sound, so I'm not going to suggest any wholesale changes. I'm even going to ignore things that I'd normally suggest you change, because I think it works better for your age bracket and what you're trying to find than something smoother would.

However, you have to remove the emojis. Every last one of them. The only reason you get to keep the exclamation marks is that you're young. ;-)

In the description of her, remove "physically" and the quotation marks. In the description of him, it's quick witted, remove his height (it's elsewhere) and then seriously consider adding something about things you like to do, individually and as a couple. I know that as young parents you don't have a ton of time, but it helps to flesh out how you're being perceived.

Fantasies is good, although the answer is me. I'm happy to be a third, or one of three singles, but for some reason I have zero interest in FMFs as part of a couple. If I hadn't already used my one allowable emoji, I'd use one here.

In Additional comments, I would remove this: "We've decided to try...the fact that" and just start at "We are both confident..." You'll just need to add a "which" in to make the sentence scan better.

And please, please, please remove those two ending paragraphs. Your permission isn't needed, you will not be bringing legal action, and it's a kind of alligator in the sewer myth anyway. Also, it's an eyeroller, plus a terrible way to end your profile.

And that's all I have. Good luck. Except that the last thing that will attract a single woman is a picture of another woman's body parts. The two of you together, looking all happy and stuff? That will work way better.

Typically, unicorn hunters aren't "taken down." It's just that whores like me who have been doing this for a while know that by the law of supply and demand, you will have a harder time finding a single female than a couple. So when we see people who want a "very bi" 26 year old redheaded triathlete unicorn who owns a liquor store and likes it up the butt, we have to roll our eyes.

If you want a 40 year old redheaded bisexual triathlete who likes it up the butt, though. I may be able to help you out. It's kind of a shame your age limit tops out at 35 because my husband and I are competing in the Stafford Triathlon in Stafford, Virginia next week near you guys, and I am so worth the trip.

I think your pictures are pretty good. I'm not a big fan of shirtless men unless they are at the beach or the pool, with very limited exceptions. On occasion, I'l suggest a really ripped guy take a picture on a pull-up bar. But if you have access to a beach or a pool, you can take a contextual picture of the male in a swimsuit... now that I think of it... our hotel has a pool...

Anyway, think of your profile as a resume. You wouldn't have the same sentence twice on your resume, right? So why would you have it on your profile. Never take the same picture twice - you are wasting valuable real estate. You have two shirtless pictures of the male. Git ride of one of them, or even better, replace it with one of him by a pool, or even better one I took of him at the pool.

You have the female half in essentially the same pose reclining with her legs crossed. Get rid of one of them.

I think you should also take one full-bodied picture of the two of you dressed up like you are going to a nice dinner. There is a reason why I have a picture of us at the theater - it's a way of showing what we will dress like when we show up for a date. Take a similar picture, maybe at a nice restaurant. It's still warm enough for a sundress and wedges and for him to wear a nice button down and slacks.

if you have any pictures of you doing interesting things, take them - hiking, at a ball game, vacationing, whatever. It's a way for people to contact you without only being able to talk about sex. We like baseball. Someone can see our pictures at the Nationals Game and contact us because they like Baseball too.

So take some new pictures and repost and we can go from there.

Just read another post and we are going to take a full body "going out" pic. ;)

My wife and I are brand new to this, and we were pumped to find this forum!

We would like to know how our profile looks and how it could be better.. We don't live within an hour of a large population center, so we want to avoid sending the wrong message, having an unflattering picture that we actually thought was "okay," or anything else that's avoidable.

Also, our profile initially leaned towards swinging, but now leans towards threesomes being the goal with swinging mentioned as something we're down for. Does the unicorn-hunting profile instantly get taken down a notch in some people's minds? If so, should we only risk that handicap if we are truly only looking for a third/ aren't really disinterested in swinging?

Thanks in advance!

Tyler and Christina