Hi. I have more than a couple of suggestions, but it's up to you as to whether you'd consider that an overhaul. And I'm warning you that I'm going to be really blunt, so be prepared.
Okay, so, you are exactly what I'm looking for - experienced, married, and playing separately with permission - and as your profile stands, I would be typing "thanksbutnothanks" so fast I'd get the letters cattywampus. That's a pretty good indication that your profile could use work.
First, your tagline is meant to entice people to read your profile. Yours doesn't. Instead it gives up the goods at the outset. In addition, the usual assumption is that a married man with a single guy's profile is cheating, which your tagline does nothing to address. So, go for short and clever instead, mentioning nothing about your marital status.
In Looking For, it's married man (in this context, "male" is a grammatical error) and you need to be clear at the outset that it's with permission, but I'd put it in Description instead of here. For the rest, if you're a one and done and never want to see them again, that first sentence is otherwise fine. If that's not the case, you need to correct that impression by at least using the plural of "evenings." The rest of that section as written is about you and that's not what it's for. Concentrate more on who and what you're looking for and do it in such a way that these other people are centered.
In Description, you do need to address both your many years in swinging and that you're playing with permission. Do it briefly, at the outset, and then move on to other things. That your wife might step back in could potentially have a home in Additional comments, but it really doesn't belong here. Everything else here doesn't belong anywhere, for various reasons. There's a kind of cri de coeur underlying much of it that made me uncomfortable and as if I should be sympathetic about your wife's lack of interest. Whatever I'm looking for doesn't include being someone's emotional support pet.
So, please, scrap all of it. You don't need to put your age - it's in the toggles - and you needn't denigrate your own appearance. Just...talk about who you are. If you feel like you're happily married, include that in that first sentence. And for the rest of it, a brief self-description of being friendly and easy going and then a quick sketch of some of your vanilla interests is just fine.
Fantasies is too detailed. Like, there's no room for other humans and their fantasies in that lovingly described and vivid fantasy. Instead, just sketch over your experience as a couple, any experience you have solo (including when you were playing as a couple) and include brief mentions of one or two fantasies, but keep it to PG rated.
In Additional comments, there's something off with the tone of the first paragraph. Also, you'd be surprised at how ineffective banging on about how much you like to eat pussy is. It's just not enticing. The last paragraph needs to be shortened and simplified as well. I'd just go with the second sentence, removing the word "well," because you don't want to make it sound as if it's difficult to set anything up with you.
Finally, do a proper spelling and grammar check. You've got a few sloppy errors and that's not a good look.
I'd suggest making corrections and then coming back for another review. Oh, and maybe another photo as well.
