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★Generic profile advice
Hmmm, not sure why I was never flagged when someone posted to my thread and realize this was a while ago, but... obmscpl - In general, you probably want to be looking for "Bi" rat…
by mayhem822replies3,405views★The DEBauCH Method - 5 Better pictures for Success
Very informative and useful. I was trying to reach you for further advice and maybe some critique as I recently joined SLS, unfortunately, your profile is not open to my type of a…
by 91dannan18replies9,996views
Thoughts
Hi. I like almost everything about your profile. I think you need a few photos that show your full length in clothes and I'm not wild about the close up that you have (great looki…
3replies542viewsYour most common NOTE for profiles is .
Our most common (& frustrating) NOTE on most profiles is...NO MALE PICS or NO PICS AT ALL. We can breeze by these profiles in the future.
by HOPnrBED3replies538viewsThumbnail Profile Pic
We are new to the site and have created our public gallery along with selecting a general picture of us for our thumbnail default. For some reason, the 'gumby couple' picture is s…
by NaughtyBL5replies538viewsNewbies profile
I actually don’t think there is much wrong with it. You need to make a few text changes and it was obviously written by the male. You seem to be following my DEBauCH picture rule…
3replies538viewsWant to see if it's us or the profile
We are new to this site and would love some feedback on our profile. Good or bad doesn't matter just honesty.
by lovepair2344replies537viewsSingle male pictures
We laugh at the fact that 89% of single male primary profile pictures are a nude shot from neck to navel. No face; no body. Also, most of the remaining single male profiles don't…
by two4twoinpa4replies535viewsNeed help with profile
Hey guys please take a look at my profile and let me know what I need to do to get it going better. If its something I need to change let me know if I'm just ugly hell that's fine…
by Amish9094replies535viewsProfile recheck- have visits but not a lot of people messaging .
I know that's probably due to couples or single women looking for something different which is fine. If however, there's a part of my profile that comes across the wrong way, I'd…
by delvalleyguy9replies534viewsNew guy here
Hey, Im new to the lifestyle and was wondering the do's and don'ts, slang, and overall my portfolio quality. Was also wondering the easiest way to network with people and getting…
by Qban945replies534viewsSame old profile
We have had the same profile for too long. Any advice on freshening this up? We want to be open to new people but also let people know we are not new either.
by sweetnesscpl7replies533viewsLooking for more interaction not sure if I’m doing this right
How would I know if this is working? I’m very respectful and definitely interested in meeting new people just not sure if I’m getting the right response I’m a single male who’s ju…
3replies533viewsRequesting CC- Round two!
Hi all, back again with a revised profile. Please focus on only the text aspect- we haven't had time to address the photos yet. Thanks everyone for your CC last time! Please let u…
by Ajax286replies531viewsPlease look at our profile
We would like to have some constructive criticism of our profile. Anything glaring or over the top? Thanks in advance, R&P
by FunInMidwest5replies530viewsNewbie Profile
Would you please provide us with some constructive criticism? We are only getting few responses. I've given it my best shot, but could use advice from more seasoned viewers/writer…
by cplnow4u3replies530viewsIs something in our profile wrong?
Not a lot of success connecting with others. Was it something we wrote or simply the way we look?
by Ozone863replies529viewsPrivacy warnings
The cut-and-paste privacy notices at the bottom of profiles ate cringe-worthy. It’s based on a hoax (started as a social media experiment to see how gullible “followers” could be…
by GingerScots5replies529viewsCritique away!
We’re looking for some advice on our profile. Read a lot of threads and tried to incorporate some of the comments we’ve seen. Are we on target.
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Re did our profile
We redid the profile, seems we are not getting any replies or messages yet. What are we wording wrong, and we are hiding faces at first. Is that the way to go? So many people on h…
5replies525viewsGuns and Fish???
I don't have guns or fish pics, but what are some other pics that may convey the wrong message in a profile? Also, can someone please critique our profile?
by OurNLS8replies525viewsWould appreciate honest constructive feedback on our profile.
We have been on the site for a couple of years and made decent progress towards finding those special needles (couples) in the haystack. However, given the pause in the lifestyle…
by funcplcali7replies524views- 2replies524views
profile review - how to improve . help needed
Would love to get some review and feedbacks on my profile. I'm not American so I guess my English is not that great either. Thanks !!! Tal
by Tal_4u4replies524viewsWHY DO MOST COUPLES HAVE LACK OF EDUCATION?
Many times couples are poorly educated, they do not respond, some because they have a fit body, they think they are worth more than others, some are racist, others discriminate, b…
by fitchcpl20138replies523viewsQuality and focus of profile
Hi there. New to the sight and getting mixed messages about my profile content (including pics). Can anyone give a perspective and can open pics if interested. I'm interested in m…
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New and would like feedback.
I've just joined this group. I would love any feedback you might have to improve my profile. Thanks Ken
by cs_ken5replies521viewsOur Profile
We have had and made several changes to our profile over the years. We would like a critique of it to see what we could improve on.
by Harnmel5replies520viewsHELP!!! Lol
I don’t have a lot of time so I’ll start with saying that I opened a private gallery to show you the kinds of pictures you should have. First thoughts: I think your weights are a…
4replies519viewsStuck up and Cocky?
A woman messaged me and I told her I wasn’t interested (I did not find her attractive) in a direct manner and in no way cruel or hurtful. She sent me a few messages asking why, sa…
by J_Von_Akron6replies519viewsPrivacy statements
After seeing privacy statements and warning notices on many profiles, I finally decided to play, the "better safe than sorry" game, but I'm really not convinced of the value of th…
3replies519viewsNew To Life Style
We are fairly new to the life style and are having a problem meeting new couples we need someone to read our profile and see where we might rewrite it to attract more people. Than…
by Ranman55685replies516views- 6replies515views
Profile comments and suggestions please!!
I’m new and try to make the best impression, please give some honest feedbacks and how my profile looks and what are to be include
by Chakradhar4replies515viewsHELP HELP HELP
Please read our profile and help us polish it up. WE are very serious about meeting people and would appreciate any help... thanks We are attractive clean shaved and safe. He has…
5replies514viewsTo Bi or not to Bi…
Looking on opinions from Couples… I am not traditionally bi… I do not seek one on one with a male… but in a group situation I am 100% comfortable with both sexes enjoying me, and…
by RideLV4replies513viewsNew to this site
Hello I am very new to this and brand new to this site! I feel like I may be doing something wrong! I have messages a few people they tend to look at my profile but not sure if I…
by Rainhavoc33replies513views- 3replies513views
Looking to improve
Good afternoon! Been on SLS for a few days now and I'm interested in seeing how I may improve my profile. New to this lifestyle so I'm still trying to get things in order. Thank y…
7replies513viewsHow should older present themselves
We are a older couple interested in meeting in our age group. So far lots of lookers very few takers. We think most are fascinated by our ages. Please check out our profile . Any…
by avqcpl5replies511views- 4replies511views
Getting started
Just created a profile and need help updating and making it more appealing
by leotheblack1replies511viewsSuggestions on our Profile
We are a FWB couple and while we enjoy many aspects of the lifestyle as singles one fantasy we have yet to realize is meeting with an interested female for a MFM. We've been searc…
by Wickedsexy6replies511viewslooking for feed back
I am looking for feed back an advice on my profile on whether or not it is ok or could be better.
by tksaleen8replies511viewsTips for better profile
Looking for tips and advise for better profile. Being a single male in this lifestyle has it challenges.
by Alp6244replies510viewsWorst profile ever?
NC, this spot in the forum is for getting advice on your own profile. While you may think that's the worst ever there are tons of empty profiles with nothing more than a name. Som…
by HollyBlue0replies508viewsNew profile review
We've been on the site and in the lifestyle for about a month now. Would like to get some advice from experienced swingers on any changes and/or improvements that we can make to o…
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Help with profile
Can you take a look and let me know. I have all ready fixed the spelling error thanks for your help
by Onewood716194replies507viewsShy or scared language in your profile is NOT a turnon
With the exception of people who might be into that kink, why do you think it would be appealing to know you're scared of sex? The LAST people most active swingers would ever cont…
by Esperanza9113replies506views
