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★Generic profile advice
Hmmm, not sure why I was never flagged when someone posted to my thread and realize this was a while ago, but... obmscpl - In general, you probably want to be looking for "Bi" rat…
by mayhem822replies3,405views★The DEBauCH Method - 5 Better pictures for Success
Very informative and useful. I was trying to reach you for further advice and maybe some critique as I recently joined SLS, unfortunately, your profile is not open to my type of a…
by 91dannan18replies9,996views
Take A Look At My Profile!
I would like for ladies or couples to look at my profile and review. I get tons of couples/ladies looking at my profile but not many contacts or messages. Give me your feed back!!
6replies580viewsProfile advice
Please take a look at our profile. Any advice on how to make it better will be appreciated
by SPDOUS9replies580viewsImpoving my profile
Hey everyone, I would really appreciate if I could get some feedback on my profile that would make it better.
by Lastjoe144replies580viewsWhat is the number in the lower right hand corner?
I’ve noticed that different users have different numbers. My number recently changed from 11 to 16 What does this number indicate?
2replies578viewsCritic por favor!
Hey all, I've asked in the past and wanted to see if anyone could give a last second touch up on my profile. I re-worked it as recently I have a little more time to invest in prop…
by cedyced157replies577viewsWhy is it so hard to gwt people to respond
Your profile is kinda terrible and we're in the middle of a pandemic. However, you probably make a better impression in person than you do in writing and if you go to a club or pa…
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Be honest, We need some advise .
We we wondering how our profile was.. Should we add or take away? To many pics? So any help to attract more friends would be great, be honest we can take it.. Katie
6replies573viewsPlease review my profile
Hello and thanks in advance for the constructive feedback. I'm new to the site and dipping my toe into the lifestyle pool. I've always been attracted to the lifestyle and have tri…
4replies572viewsNegativity on profiles
Earlier today, I was looking at some of the advice y'all have given on profiles recently and something popped into my mind about negativity. It's an incomplete thought, and I didn…
by sorillo10008replies570viewsProfile Critique Please
I am just re-entering the lifestyle after the passing of my wife. I've read some of the reviews and I know I only have one photo. I'm working of getting more done. I hate selfies…
7replies566viewsNeed help on my profile.
I have been on as a single male for a few days with no response at all so I am guessing it is my profile, HELP
by gramdpa22078replies565viewsHelp wanted
So I have created a new profile with the same base content as my older one(just changed my UserName and tag line) now my conundrum is my tagline. What is a good tag line or what s…
5replies564viewsprofile critique
I have tweaked mine a couple times...I'm not getting much response unless I'm bi... I came here for kool, friendly women/woman... I'd really like to find a compatible friend... I…
by swingin_dick9replies564viewsProfile review please - Single Male
Everyone probably knows how challenging it is for a single male to grab attention on a site like this. I would appreciate any feedback on my pictures and bio. Thanks in advance
14replies563viewsProfile Review/Advice for Single Male
I'm hoping to get some feedback on my profile. How does the profile read? TIA!
by hetflex4u6replies563viewsSydney University Warning - the Urban Legend
Sydney University Warning - the Urban Legend - why it should not appear in your profile If you look through twenty SLS profiles you’re likely to see the Sydney University Urban Le…
by 1lkydog0replies563viewsThis is the 1st time we r tryn this
We both done this by yourself younger but we never done together so to be on the site we have no idea what we're looking for ballet writing so if you got any pointers and feedback…
by Tevaflav6replies563viewsNew to lifestyle and writing a profile .
I think what you have is pretty solid. Clear pics. Male and female. You are doing interesting things.
3replies563viewsProfile review needed
I've been on here, on and off, for over 2 years, and have had couples swaps, lots of unicorn experience, parties, etc. Problem? I am a Bi woman (actually Bi-not a pillow princess)…
by LadyBlueSF8replies563viewsYet another profile review request
Hi everyone, please take a look at our profile and let us know what you think. The good, the bad and the ugly. Thanks in advance. Jack (and Diane)
14replies562viewsReview and give feedback please. brutally honest preferred.
Hmmm. Well, I just spent some quality time doing an online yoga class, so I'm short on brutality at the moment. At least by my standards. You may have a different opinion when I'm…
6replies562viewsProfile Review - Please and Thank You
We've taken a lot of the feedback on here, and tried to apply it our profile. Just need to get some better full body pictures, but those are coming! :) Any feedback is welcome! Th…
by MnM_WA12replies561viewsProfile Review - Be Open, Ruthless (if need be) , and Honest
Hey guys, I've read some of the posts that are posted in this forum [perhaps not nearly as many as I could since there are so many posts] and was wondering if anyone cared to crit…
8replies561viewsProfile advice.
Hello, We have been on here for a while. We have had success in the past, but lately not so much. We have read through the profile forums and have taken another look at our profil…
by littledirty6replies561viewsProfile help
I'd like to get some feedback on my profile and how to improve it. I haven't been on here very long and want to increase my chances of meeting up with someone. I realize I'm alrea…
by mtbaseball9replies560viewsReview please
Everyone here helped us get set up about a year ago when we were total newbies. Now that the new car smell has worn off and we've decided that we're here for good we'd appreciate…
by AandJinNNJ6replies559viewsCritique my profile please
Made some updates to my profile. Please critique me...gentle...or harsh. Just give it to me I can take it.
by PartyFun20014replies559viewsIt's fun, but not easy
I think the pictures you have are okay for now. If you two really do race, you should throw up a few finish line pictures. Just blur your bib numbers as well. As we are both publi…
6replies558viewsSM Profile review please
Ok lovely folks. I have had a single male profile here for over a year and only got ONE couple show interest and follow through (on day one). Otherwise, it has been really quiet.…
11replies557viewsNew to the site and to the LS
Hey ya'll, As the subject says we are newbies and would like so help with crafting a great profile. To be honest we created it by looking at several profiles and incorporating asp…
by JeannetteR8replies555views- 2replies554views
Ingredients for a stellar Certification of Single Male
Howdy All- We have met a single male on a few occasions in a variety of venues and each time we walk away thinking about what we can write in a Certification that can actually tra…
7replies553views- 6replies552views
Profile Help Please !!!
I've been in SLS lifestyle for less than 1 year and I've met some Great people. I do pretty well at local SLS home events but Poorly on the website. I'm Much more comfortable with…
by Zulu0085replies551viewsAdvice from the ladies .
As a fairly new member to this community, and a male playing mostly solo, I would absolutely love any advice you might have for me, as to the contents of my profile. If you would…
by JJoLove4u28replies551viewsProfile critique .
I've received a moderate amount of responses so far. I'm wondering if my profile could be any better with either more pics or description of myself, looking for, and experiences/f…
8replies550views- 6replies550views
Newbie Mature Couple needs feedback
We would appreciate you taking the time necessary to help us become better community members. We are at "stillnesssage"
5replies549viewsOh, boy, here goes nothing!
We have been tweaking, but know there is room for improvement. I don’t know whether to ask Ms. Molly and Ms. Velma for advice or for their autograph! I consider this messaging boa…
by tandamem8replies549viewsProfile critique
Just curious if we could get an outsider to critique our profile and maybe get some pointers on any changes.
by Funin370427replies549viewsBeing blocked
Some people will block if they're not interested. Sometimes there is no other reason. The only reason I will block someone after they email is if they're disrespectful, or if they…
by cacpl_263replies547viewsUpdated profile .would like opinions
We have updated our profile and would like some opinions or suggestions.
4replies547viewsProfile criticism please.
As a single male , increasing chances of visibility depends on every little thing. Being polite, through profile and a good set of interests is a start. Unsolicited emails to coup…
by Ad_iron7replies546viewsThoughts
Thoughts? On what subject? Unless you want to hear stream-of-consciousness on..... shit, I have to unload the dishwasher ewww, that dishtowel's wet I wonder if my old friend DS go…
by sorillo10003replies546viewsProfile help
What is our profile lacking? We get many views, but rarely get messages or replies. Thanks!
by MarLi39407replies545viewsTold I am doing better than i think as a single but looking for more interactions
Good morning From time to time I think it is a good idea to see why (other than being a straight single male on a couples dominated site) I am not getting as much response as i th…
5replies544viewsProfiles with no pics
What’s up with all the blue, green, pink and yellow Gumbies? I’ve seen so many profiles without pics but the person has a been a member for quite sometime and area active so to sp…
by HungVet4replies544viewsProfile review please?
First to preface - I know we are listed as no full swap and explicitly state that we are interested in same room no swap at this time, so if that’s the primary reason we aren’t ge…
by Laawbrick697replies542viewsSo what do YOU do when you get contacted by someone who doesn't know they need profile help?
We get a good number of folks reaching out to us that have weak profiles, pics that need work, or both. Those are good reasons for us to say No, but occasionally I can't resist of…
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