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★Generic profile advice
Hmmm, not sure why I was never flagged when someone posted to my thread and realize this was a while ago, but... obmscpl - In general, you probably want to be looking for "Bi" rat…
by mayhem822replies3,403views★The DEBauCH Method - 5 Better pictures for Success
Very informative and useful. I was trying to reach you for further advice and maybe some critique as I recently joined SLS, unfortunately, your profile is not open to my type of a…
by 91dannan18replies9,996views
Updating profiles
Why don't people mainly men update their profile . We get people all the time sending mail they don't fit our ages . When mail back they say oh that old have not up it for years.…
by neohguy4replies386viewsRevised profile critic
i have had been offered some really great advice and have totally revamped my profile. Can i get a 2nd round of critic on the changes... I have actually received a handful of resp…
by bobcwd12replies386views- 2replies386views
Professional photos
Do you think a professional/ corporate photo in a profile helps or hurts? I mean, it is a great photo, you clearly see what they look like, but it is also a staged photo and I jus…
by Ymichael145replies385viewsProfile review.
Looking for any advice on my profile!! Thank so much if you decide to leave a note or two!!
by Bul4fun8replies385viewsOur profile
So to start, I think your pictures are pretty good. I would just make a few modifications. First off, the third picture of the female half is obviously a screenshot. When I see th…
0replies385viewsEtiquette
We are new to the lifestyle and new to this site. I just wanted to inquire about what typical etiquette is here, or more so the best way to make connections? Of course we are tryi…
by Uusthem9replies384viewsPlease review our profile
We've been on the site for about a month and while we've met a few people and exchanged messages, that's as far as it's gotten. I know some of that is probably the COVID mess but…
by DemonaAndEls2replies384viewsOh no, it's another profile review request!
Hello fabulous community I would welcome any feedback on my profile for anyone willing to provide it? Thank you :) Warren
2replies384viewsSideways Pix
I know I've seen info here SOMEWHERE about how to get my pix to not be sideways on my profile. They look fine on my phone, and I can't tell if they're upright until they get appro…
by Young2Ginger2replies382viewsProfile Update
Any constructive advise on adding or deleting to our profile before we renew our membership? We are older and want to be honest about who we are and our intentions. Thanks in adva…
by JackpotRandC5replies382views- 2replies382views
Why post if no intent to respond
We have contacted literally hundreds of couple only to not get a response. Wondering if these people are even real, or have any intentions of swinging. Literally no one has contac…
by MNJFLA2replies381viewsAdvice needed
Last try to meet people on this site before I cancel and walk away. I have been a member first as a couple now as a single and have yet met another couple or single female from th…
by Brian327254replies381viewsToo long?
Just seeking some advice if our profile drags on too long. We'd like others to actually read to the end without losing interest. Thanks in advance for all the great suggestions &…
by HOPnrBED5replies380views- 1replies380views
Open to suggestions on my profile
I haven't been having much luck here on SLS. I send polite and engaging messages to others but usually get no response. I am in fairly good shape and feel that I am atleast somewh…
by Lucky24guy7replies379viewsCritique our Profile
It’s been awhile since we’ve rewritten our profile. Our interests remain the same, but maybe we can make it better? Feel free to let us know what you think!
3replies378viewsProfile Review
Hey everyone, I’m looking to make sure my profile reflects me in the best way possible and connects with the right people. If you’ve got a few moments, I’d love any feedback or su…
by Tellmemoree16replies377viewsOrienting Pictures
Good morning! Can anyone help with orienting pictures? We’ve uploaded several that Ned to be rotated. I’ve been all over the site looking for instructions but to no avail. Any fee…
5replies377viewsMain Profile picture showing only … HIM?
Is it just me, or does anyone else find it kinda odd when a couple’s main Profile picture is of only the male? And *especially* when the pic was taken with a cell phone pointed at…
by NC_Seniors3replies377viewsPlease help with our profile
If anyone has any suggestions they would be greatly appreciated.
by RedandPJ306replies377viewscritique please
You need new pictures. I don’t even know what That first picture is. Is it the guy? Is it the girl? Are you hiking? I don’t know. You need at least 5 full-body pictures of the hus…
2replies377viewslittle help please
Oh boy... So, first off... no guns or fish. I don’t care if you like to fish. I don’t care if you won a blue ribbon at the ESPN 8 fish games. Nothing will turn a woman off faster…
2replies377viewsHelp me review my profile
Honest feedback. And shoot a message so I can open pics up for you if you'd like to see them all... Let me know what I can do to change things, to make my profile more attractive.…
by SneakyTiki4replies376viewsAnyone wanna review our profile?
We just got back on SLS and we would love some help with our profile. If anyone has any interest in taking a look and providing some pointers we would greatly appreciate it!
3replies376viewsold members, new profile, and could use some help
Hi, wife and i have been in lifestyle for some time now. We had started a profile years ago and had some luck, but decided to take a break. just started up a new profile and want…
by Clarke24replies375viewsI refined some things - what do you think?
So I'm typically the judge, but I thought about it and I revamped my profile a bit. I've had the same one for about two years and it was time for some spring cleaning. I usually p…
2replies375viewsCalling yourself attractive while refusing to show your faces is hilarious
Unearthing this issue again.
by Esperanza9111replies374viewsShould we redo our profile??
We havent received much intrest...i feel it's because we are fairly new in the lifestyle not our profile..any advice...
3replies373viewsIs it my profile ?
So I post a Hot Date and 19 couples view my profile but I get no reply’s so it has me wondering….is it my profile…my age….not enough pictures ? Just being curious as to what it ma…
by Trappist5replies372viewsAdvice for my profile
I'm looking for honest answers on what I need or need to take out of my profile
by rhino32estl3replies371viewsProfile review / advice
Would like opinions on our profile. We realize the sideways photos are a p.i.t.a. but can't figure out how to fix them. Apparently it is due to some encription on the file from ta…
by KGSRRB257replies370viewsTake a look and let us know what you think?
We're new to SLS and the lifestyle in general, so we'd love some input if anybody has any!
by teamjk9193replies369viewsMale status
I am curious about orally pleasuring a male, but have not acted upon it/had the opportunity for it. What is the best way in my profile to describe that? Have my sexuality as bi cu…
by MKcouple4136replies369viewsFeedback on our profile
We have a longer profile that details what we’re like and what we’re looking for sprinkled with some sarcasm and humor. Some if it is to avoid being burned again by people who bla…
by just4us6033replies368viewsWhat is the point of a face photo that has the face blocked out???
Just don't even bother.
by Esperanza9112replies368viewsFeedback appreciated
OK, I think I'm ready to take my lumps. Previously had a profile here as a couple, received excellent criticism and advice when we first started and I'm looking for the same again…
by Murkshade5replies368viewsFeedback?
Looking for feedback on our profile. Not too worried about the pics, but feel free to critique. I’m more looking for input on the info. We’re new to this, and trying to not look g…
by Afunpair992replies366views- 2replies366views
Reviews of my profile GREATLY APPRECIATED
Thank you so much for taking time to peak at and review my profile. I will open locked photo galleries upon request. Rob
by DarinRobb9replies364views- 3replies363views
Are pictures of prior exploits in the gallery of a single male profile a turn-on or a turn-off?
Thus far, I've kept pictures of only myself on my profile. None of them is overtly explicit. None of them is with prior partners (even if I have their consent to share). Do you th…
by blingra5replies362viewsProfile advice
Would love some input/suggestions on our profile. We realize the name sucks, lol, but apparently SLS doesn’t allow name changes. Any help is welcomed but please keep in mind, we a…
4replies360viewsWe would appreciate a critique of profile?
I have changed our profile many times. Tried laid back then more direct and don’t know what is right. Not sure what photos to post and not post or share. Any advice would be appre…
by Deutsche342replies359viewsFeedback appreciated
Here are my thoughts, you'll find people who give feedback here are very direct. Please don't take it personally, it's just how we are over here. I'll start with your photos. You…
4replies358viewsNew Profile Woes
So I've made my profile, and I'm tailoring it to be what I need it to be. After a good handful of changes made, I gotta wait like two days lol. I wish the changes were instantly s…
by Citizxn5replies357viewsWould appreciate a profile critique
Hello! Any suggestions to improve my profile would be most appreciated. Thanks! Brad
by BadBrad161replies357views- 0replies355views
What would you change?
Have read through some of the other profile suggestions and thought we’d give it a try. What do you think?
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