Hi. I apologize in advance for what I'm about to write. It's kindly meant, but over the years I've discovered it's just better to be blunt if clarity is my aim (and it is).
I feel like you are probably a fun guy, but your photos and your profile combine to portray you as dry and, although probably interesting, without any real fire. Unless that's an accurate read, I think you would be well served to make some changes.
Let me get the straight up pedantry out of the way first: It's love OF reading and hotwives rather than hot wife's.
As far as how to juice up your profile, or at least make it less staid, it's really just a few simple changes. But let's talk about your photos first. Clothed is better for your public photos, especially when your clothes fit and are flattering. Smiling is a necessity, even if your face is obscured (and the half ghosts are way better than Bland Guy's face), and it would be helpful if someone else took your photos or you used a timer on your phone.
In terms of the text, the problem is too many words, so the life in there is reduced. If you use declarative sentences, you'll be better served.
Example: "I’m someone who thrives on a mix of competition, strategy, and continuous learning." vs I thrive on a mix of competition, strategy, and continuous learning.
The first creates more distance between the writer and the reader, while the second draws them in.
Sometimes it's fine. In Looking For, it works pretty well, although I'd get rid of "...—and expected" because it's prescriptive and a little off-putting. Sometimes you just have to leave things as hints.
In Description, I've cited one example of where a declarative sentence would be an improvement, but you could also eliminate "Beyond the field," "great athletes, and "thought-provoking" without harming the image you want to convey (it will actually help, I promise). Aside from other advantages derived from fewer and more pointed words, it gives people greater scope for asking you questions.
Fantasies is fine other than the hot wife's thing and is where I found the first real clue that you were probably fun.
Additional comments is something of an own goal. If you aren't sending at least one face photo with an initial message, you are reducing your chances of getting a response. Doesn't matter how well written your message is. So maybe rethink that strategy.
Best of luck. I hope you make some changes and check in to see how they land.
