Profile review

Figure out who your desired audience is and write to THAT. This is marketing 101, and you are the product.

One of the things I was thinking as I read your profile is that soft play puts you in a smaller pool of people that would be interested in you. The mention of a unicorn and the MFF also kind of places you into a pool of being yet another couple looking primarily for a SF. It can make it sound like a couple is your "second" choice, and only if you had to. Perhaps try to make it sound more like there is equal interest in couples and SFs and that might help you garner a bit more interest.

If there is in fact way more interest in SFs than couples and you're just telling it like it is, there's nothing wrong with that, but you'll be looking for the most sought after commodity on any sex site, so Yeah, it's going to be slow. Especially if you have to meet multiple times to consider playing, and that play is going to be limited to soft play.

We are actually close enough to meet. Aside from us not meeting your age preference, I likely wouldn't reach out even if we were within your age preference for the reasons stated above.

The pictures help you get past the "0 lbs" thing, but I can see some skipping over you for that reason alone. You weigh what you weigh. It's usually considered better to own it than try to hide it.

I do see that you are getting out to clubs/parties, and both Sinz and Club Moist probably wind up being good choices for you. You'll likely have much better luck attending those than anything you'll see online, regardless of how good your profile is.

A few things to consider:
Zero for weight is silly. You're looking to get naked with people. Why bother lying about weight?

I urge you to do actual research about bisexuality and "unicorn hunters".

Confidence is sexy af.

Finally got a chance to sit down and read your profile - and yeah, it's not bad but much too negative and repetitious. There is no need to repeat things in your stats nor what you don't want. It appears that you've adjusted your preference to include soft play - hopefully the flyover will soon reflect that. Then you should go through your text and rephrase things so they are what you want rather than what you don't want (and only state them once) or just eliminate them.

I agree that you really need at least one full length picture of the two of you. Y'all look like fun so make sure your pictures reflect that with smiles.

Have fun!

Hi. I did read your profile. It's fine, maybe middle of the road, but I think you can do better.

The photos that you have are mostly good, but you really do want at least one of the two you together, full length, dressed in well fitting date type clothes and clearly a couple. It'll especially help with your pursuit of single women (a better term than unicorn).

In terms of text, don't bother talking about what you don't want, like single guys (just block them) or pushy people (it's not like pushy people know they're pushy), because it's pointless negativity. Instead, focus on what you do want.

In Looking For, you can definitely expand a little more, especially if you're looking for more than soft play with single women.

In Description, I'm only interested in the first paragraph. The rest could almost be boilerplate it's so bland. It's really hard to write about our sexual selves in a way that is interesting, which is one of the reasons it's better to concentrate on your vanilla selves instead.

Make sure Fantasies is up to date and in Additional comments, please note that your ages and photos are up to date as of 2022 (and if that's not true, make it so).

Other than that, try for a short, clever tagline and in your age range it's a better look to center yourselves instead of what you have done.

Good luck. I hope you get more advice and then come back to show your changes

Just taking a wild guess but weight = 0 and interest level of watch probably isn't enticing enough for many to consider going beyond the flyover.

I get the weight thing (I'm a bit above the recommended weight for my height) - but self confidence is sexy. Full body pictures in clothes that fit will show your general size. if the goal is getting naked with others (even if only on an exhibitionist/voyeur level) then you might as well put a realistic weight in your stats. People online are quick to say "no" and will usually assume the worst - don't give them ammunition.

Later today I'll have time to actually read your profile text - but there are fewer swingers at your end of the spectrum (watching/minimal soft play) so you're going to have to work harder to find and attract them.

Good luck, have fun and stay safe!

~Phoebert's Wife

Single guys are blocked, sorry.

We took several years off and are back in the ring again. Not getting many hits, guessing our profile needs some help!