Please review profile

I like that a lot better. I'm more interested in a couple when I see them doing interesting things.

Seriously, check us out. We're going to be in Mt. Laurel, NJ on the 21st.

Thanks for your advice everybody. We have updated our profile with many of your suggestions in mind and plan on making it to some meet & greets in the future!

I don't know if I would change anything. I might cut down on a few of the sexypics and add at least one picture of you two dressed like you are going to a nice dinner or church and maybe another pic of you two doing something interesting.

I'd probably fuck you. Hell, you may even get the chance. We're going to be up in NJ on April 21st for my husband's first triathlon of the year. And every girl should get the opportunity to fuck a triathlete at least once.

Hi. Welcome. I am running late for a thing, but quickly, your profile is a little confusing. Like, you sound like lovely people and then there's a confusing bit or a red flag or something that makes me question my assessment.

Here are the things I'd take out (with minimal explanations as to why, please ask and I'll explain more fully later if I'm confusing you):

We prefer our play partners to also be good friends. (It's pretty rare, but something many of us look for, so here it's the sentence construction that's the problem, unless you are a "must be good friends first and then we might fuck you.)

Full swap a possibility with the right couple. (Maybe adjust your toggles for less interest and insert a sentence prior to this one explaining what you are actually interested in doing. Also, wife has a boyfriend and husband is available for full swap is a bit of a red flag if you aren't routinely full swap as a couple. I'd be suspecting drama issues.)

The last line in Looking for belongs in Additional information and I might leave off the part about your second home.

Good luck.

Welcome to the forums, KettSteam.

First of all, I agree with Ron that live events are always going to provide better overall success than will online contacts. Providing of course that you both have engaging personalities. That being said, I believe that I understand you to be more curious as to what might be going on with the online attempts that you make. To that point, I will say these things:

"We do write people, but barely ever receive replies."

That doesn't surprise me, and for a number of reasons. The main reason is that the overwhelming amount of activity here is the result of men, either single or the male half of a couple. In my view, your profile lets both know that there isn't much interest in either.

"Some of them will check out our profile, but about half few will not."

I think that you're mistaken about that fact. I'd be wiling to say that nearly 100% of the folks you write will at least look at your profile. The fact that they don't show up on your "Who's Viewed Me" list means nothing. Any paid member can read emails without opening them as they can also view your profile without showing up on your list.

"We've tried to be pretty straightforward with what all we've expressed..."

Maybe so, but have you also considered that you might be sending a message that is unintended? What I mean to say is have you considered not only what you meant to say, but also what others might be hearing? If you have, then OK.

"I feel like there's something we're missing."

I tend to agree a little here, and I don't believe that it's intentional. In the end, when I read your profile I conclude that you guys are actually looking for the very thing that is the absolute most rare in this environment. It is for this reason that I believe you rarely get the response that you'd like. I don't believe that it's because of anything wrong with either of you, and I don't believe that there's anything wrong with what you seek. I just believe that there are thousands seeking the same thing and precious few of those things available.

Tramp

Hi all, we've been on the site over a year and go through periods of activity. We do write people, but barely ever receive replies. Some of them will check out our profile, but about half few will not. We've tried to be pretty straightforward with what all we've expressed and I know that these things are subjective, but any advice or suggestions would be welcome. I feel like there's something we're missing.