Please help

Fort Payne, AL, Us

Much better - good job!

As you get a few more photos you might want to delete a few that are essentially the same - but that's just me. I'd rather see six vastly different photos than scroll through a dozen taken at the same time from slightly different angles or two dozen selfies where only the shirt changes. ;-)

Good luck and have fun!

Austin, TX, Us

I have changed the profile and the default picture. Maybe I'll have some time this weekend to model a few outfits.

RonKathyVeteran
Woodstock, GA, Us

OP...some just like to look at all the profiles and see why they complain and fail on a swing site, some just like to perv nice interesting profiles.. Yours sorry OP ....very juvenile and nothing of substance.. and YES we looked but never showed up as the "who viewed" me feature is turned off!

Those who make the cut and into our bed.. have a great profile read, great photos ...some dressed up... some casual.. and if not you are just one more guy who doesnt get it on a swing site!

Good luck, take the much needed advice and have fun .. we have well over 25 years swinging well before we were on SLS !

So NOW the ball and swinging experience is in your court what will you do?

Fort Payne, AL, Us

Hope you've read other reviews and noticed that most of us that respond here are rather opinionated about profiles - and we tend to be blunt. But we really do want to help you maximize your success on SLS.

Making online connections is not a quick and easy process - especially for a single gentleman. Most single ladies and couples have many more single gentlemen vying for their attention than they have time to meet & play with. And not everyone is looking for single gentlemen.

Most of the usual advice given to other single gentlemen applies to your profile - you shouldn't need to read many reviews offered to others to realize what you need to improve (and hopefully how to improve). Try to maintain your quirky, fun writing style - but definitely lose the joke.

Emoji display as ?? so you might as well delete that along with the joke. ;-)

You don't need to go into detail about fantasies or experience but telling us you'll discuss in person is a total punt.

In general you want to provide actual information so others can consider you rather than just say no.

Good luck, have fun and stay safe!

~Phoebert's Wife

HOPnrBEDRegular
Colonie, NY, Us

First off you have to give it more time since you joined. Maybe take a few everyday photos of you dressed up and then a few just casual rather than all on a bike fully dressed and a helmet. Best to attend a few local hotel gatherings or parties. Toss that first "joke" line and replace it with what you are actually looking for. Good luck!

Austin, TX, Us

I've been looked at almost 40 times and no response. I send out emails with either no response or a not interested. 99% no response. Once the person deleted the conversation.

Thanks in advance