No takers

I personally would pass on your profile because it was what I would consider a "me show". In other words whether you meant it to sound like that or not your profile is all about what you want to get out of the experience and not one bit about what you are going to add to the experience.
As a single man your role is generally to add to the experience.
If you expected this to be a quick hookup site you might be disappointed. If all you are looking for is a series of one night stands check out the hot dates that are posted in your area.

OP: First off, welcome to SLS and the forums.

Quick and dirty:

A lot of women will delete themselves from contacting you because they may believe their ass isn’t good enough for you.

You think you’re good looking, nothing wrong with that, but YMMV because that is opinionated at best.

Scratch your written profile and start over.

~Allen

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Go start a thread in Better Profiles if you want a real review but here's two things I noticed that have me saying "nope" right away.

You've had this profile for a week and you're complaining about not getting responses. This is not a place to find quick sex - online contacts take a lot of time and work.

Your profile gives me the impression that it's all about you - not the attitude I want joining us in bed.

If nothing else, go read reviews in Better Profiles - you'll see common threads to the advice. Do the work of writing an appealing profile with good pictures (look for Velma's DEBauCH system) and have a little patience.

Good luck!

~Phoebert's Wife

As a husband once I realize that your more into domination and wanting to cuckhold I just skipped your profile. Not a couple friendly profile at all as a single male. Look at other single male profiles. Look at couples profiles and merge the two together. Your profile is a turn off as a husband.

You might be a great guy but all I have to go by is your profile and it tells me your more into yourself and not interested in a couple unless you can humiliate or dominate our relationship. As a husband I wouldn’t dare have you with us. Just saying.

Catchy you're right on with the "phraseology", that would have been as far in the profile that we would have read.

Catchy is giving you the goods and you should listen. I took a look at your profile and if your intent is to appeal to couples and women, you're far off the mark. What you have is the profile equivalent of walking up to a strange woman in a bar and saying, "Hey, baby, can I buy you a drink?"

Now, that could work, but it's unlikely.

If you don't feel up to exposing yourself to the Better Profiles process, at least go read ten or twenty threads.

Tho I didn't click on your profile, just hovered, here's an example of the form and type of feedback you'll get:

We wouldn't click on your profile because the tagline is so off-putting to a couple. "Let me cum between you" is a witty turn of phrase, but it's exactly wrong for a straight, single male in the lifestyle. What scenario do you envision where the two of them have you sandwiched between them that doesn't involve bi play? That puts off couples with straight males right away, so there's a significant portion of your potential playmates you've turned off. Also, the unaltered version of that phrase ("Let me come between you") implies you'll interfere in their relationship, and that's pretty much anathema to couples who might choose to play with a single male.

I tried to fix it, but there's no way to avoid the unpleasant undertones any variant of that phrase brings to the table. You want to avoid the slightest hint/whisper/implication of impropriety, so I'd ditch it completely and start from scratch.

So there you go...if you can handle that kind of feedback, you'll have things fine-tuned and running smoothly in no time at all.

Pop on over to the Better Profiles section. There's a dedicated crew of volunteers who will be glad to offer feedback on your profile.

It's not for the faint of heart, as the feedback will be brutally honest, but understand it comes from a good place: We all want you to succeed. Like some medicine, the feedback may not taste good but if you take as directed, it will generally cure all your profile ills.

What am I doing wrong? I'm new to this. I've sent many messages to couples and women. I have been very polite and asked people to help me. I can see that they all viewed my message and profile, but I'm getting no response from anyone. I just want to start in the LS like everyone else. What am I doing wrong?