Thank you for reading our profile and providing feedback. I've updated the written portion. I'll update the pics as soon as I can. Neither of us are fond of having our picture taken. That's just us. I'll post again when I have a couple of new pictures. Thank you again!
Hi and welcome. You are never going to get a lot of responses. That's just the reality. You're openly racist, which will turn off a bunch of white people as well as anyone of color, plus your look is not going to appeal to the majority of the pool that is left over. So, small pond to fish in to find a four way attraction. Oh, and then you only want smokers and drinkers. Smaller pond.
As far as your profile, your photos are bad. Listen to Velma. And for him, braid your beard and trim the split ends off your hair.. Stringy hair looks unhealthy, which even in the demographic that might be interested in you will be a turn off. List your weights. It doesn't matter what they are, those zeroes are a far bigger red flag than any weight you might post.
Other than that, capital letters only belong at the beginnings of sentences unless the words are proper nouns and lose that sentence about the best books having the worst covers. You have the covers that you have and you need to embrace the beautiful reality of that. Oh, and, yes, if you're looking for folks with whom you have mutual interests, you might want to say more about those.
Good luck.
Couple of thoughts:
"We do not play outside out race" is a major turnoff. It tells me everything I need to know about you and I would have already clicked away had I not been reviewing.
I'm also not a big fan of listing your weight as 0 lbs. Either man the fuck up and own it or lose some weight. I'm never going to be a a 130 lb size 2, but I will out whore any bitch out there. I own it.
You mention your weights and physical characteristics in another sentence. Take that out. Let your pictures do the talking.
The pictures... I've often said you need 5 pictures - male face and body, female face and body and a picture of the two of you together like you are dressed for church or a nice dinner. Be careful of selfies from a below-face angel. Nobody looks good like that. The remaining pictures whould be of you doing interesting things. Go to the beach or a ball game. Don't have more than 10 pictures and never take a picture with a gun or a fish.
Ok... so now I'm going to get real. But fuck it. I speak the truth. You two have a unique, alternative look. It's typically the look you see with you see with bikers. If you own a motorcycle, get some pics of the two of you on it. Yeah, the "reclining nude on a bike" thing is a little cliche but it can help you draw in other bikers. If your look is just how the male half likes to look, then you have to understand you may be limiting yourself in potential play partners. I tend to like clean cut guys. I'm not saying change yourself, but recognize the limitations of your current narrative.
Remember, SLS is social media. Think of it as the Facebook of swinging. Facebook isn't real. It's the life you are showing others to make them think you have an amazing life. You need to construct a narrative and the profile and supporting pictures need to help guide that narrative. In our case, we have the narrative of active urban professionals. I'm the dirty teacher, he's the business executive you would never expect was a swinger. Find a narrative and sell yourself.
Your story about the short haircut - I would either tell the story or leave it out. If she did something like Locks of Love, let people know. If... and I hate to be morbid... but if she had cancer herself and shaved her head, again, own it. Even something like "She just kicked cancer's ass and is growing her hair out again" says a lot.
So that's about it for now. Retake some your pictures, make some edits and repost so we can refine.
Would you please provide us with some constructive criticism? We are only getting few responses. I've given it my best shot, but could use advice from more seasoned viewers/writers...
Hope you all have a fabulous day..
TIA!
