New Single please review

GoodenuffVeteran
Brooklyn Park, MN, Us

I (the guy) am definitely not the best at critiquing profiles so I'm just going to offer 1 opinion as a former SM on multiple sites...

I agree with Molly regarding the photo of you in the red shirt as being the better choice for a default photo.

I met Mrs. G when we were each SF and SM on other sites. When we became couple here we use the "gumby" for reasons we've explained elsewhere, but couples definitely have it easier when it comes to finding others.

A SM really needs a GOOD default photo with the person being the main focus. Trust me on this one, and good luck.

Fort Payne, AL, Us

I'm probably a bit jaded but your text reads like marketing BS to me - all sound bites but no real substance.

I get no sense of you as a person. Surely there is more to you than going to the gym every day.

What sort of things do you do on vacation - hiking, boating, history tours, food tours? How about on weekends - cook fantastic meals, remodel your house, go dancing with friends? Is that dog real - do you go play Frisbee at the dog park? What about that car - cruising down Main Street on Sat night?

And while you don't have to give graphic details about your swinging experience and fantasies you do need to be a bit more specific. Have you played with a couple before? Was it MFM or MMF or did you have fun with a HotWife without her husband? Are you interested in larger groups?

We're looking for well rounded, interesting people - give us a reason to contact you or reply to your message.

I hope you revise your text - I get the feeling there's more to you than you've shared so far.

Good luck, have fun and stay safe!

~Phoebert's Wife

Phoenix, AZ, Us

Hi. You could start by choosing a default photo instead of your current blue gumby appearance. Of the ones you have, I'd go with the one of you in the red shirt. A big smile would be better, but the dog has center stage in that one.

In terms of your text, you did a better job with your post here than what you have in Looking For. Which could stand to be expanded some anyway. If nothing else, the bits in Description that talk about what you're looking for belong in this first section.

In Description, most of it doesn't really belong here. The middle sentence belongs above and the last two belong in Additional comments, leaving just that you're fit and committed to fitness. That's great, but there are things about you that are unique, if not in individual elements, then in aggregate. Give a better sense of yourself. Do you have other hobbies or interests other than fitness? What do you like to do? And by do, I don't mean sex - that's what Fantasies is for - but those bits and pieces that make a life. What sort of person are you? High energy? Great, but a hint on how it manifests in your life would be nice.

Sorry, I'm tired, so I'm using a lot of words to say, basically, that everyone is unique and uniquely interesting and you could do a slightly better job of displaying that. Because it doesn't matter how tough it might be for single men, it's entirely possible to become a valued part of the lifestyle and as successful as any couple or single woman.

Ymichael14Veteran
North Branford, CT, Us

I'm a single, straight guy so I assume women will be able to give you a better opinion on your profile. The only thing I noticed was if you are going to show the dog, women will want to know about the dog. Is he yours, name, breed.
And the Christmas tree. I don't think many single guys put up a tree, and since many single guys lie, they may think you are married and lying. Whether that is your tree or you are visiting someone, you should probably explain the tree.

New and open-minded—know it’s tough out here for a single guy, but I’m just looking for good vibes, real chats, and genuine connections