Let's all just face it. A lot of people are assholes. They think they are above everyone else. They think they can choose whomever they want and that's how it goes. The best is you try to be nice and say hi or wish them a happy holiday and they ignore you. Didn't realize this was kindergarten all over again. Too much to say hi back and "too busy" or "not interested". Instead they ignore and show their real personalities. Shitty! It takes about 15 seconds to reply to anyone who has taken their time out to reach you and either say hi or compliment on your pics. A shame so many assholes have to spoil it for everyone else. Simple just don't compliment anyone on their pics. They get offended if you say something good or bad, then why post them to begin with. Good luck all. Enjoy the new year!
naked pics,
Sensualloverman,
It would help if you would post a sample of the messages that have pissed people off. Cut and paste from your message stream so we can give more pointed advice, rather than the generalities that you’ve been seeing.
"Personally, we're not looking for single guys, but I can't understand being offended by compliments."
That's because your profile isn't open to what Velma correctly terms Dicknado. Try it for six months and see if you change your mind.
The OP can't see my response because he has me blocked (no, I don't know why, since I have no memory of him), but the answer is most men don't do a good job of crafting compliments about women's bodies that don't sound skeevy. I doubt he's one of the exceptions.
@SquirtsOfFun - when you are looking for single guys and have naked pictures in a public gallery then the sheer volume of inane comments can get tiresome, so even complimentary ones can be unwelcome if there is no chance of play with the sender.
Personally I mostly just ignore them.
Oh, please. Bitches line up to envy me.
Who knows, people are weird. Personally, we're not looking for single guys, but I can't understand being offended by compliments. If you don't want people seeing you naked, don't post naked pics online, LOL. Seems pretty simple. Also, if you can't handle random people seeing you naked, swinging might not be the lifestyle for you :)
I think a lot of couples think the way I do - IM/mail for connecting with possible playmates and the forums for socializing. No matter how complimentary and tactful, to receive a comment on pictures from someone too far away to play with somehow feels creepy. Messages commenting on profile text are less creepy since that implies you've read the profile and haven't just been perving on the pictures.
Kathy is pretty hot. My husband would totally fuck her.
I know I have a nude picture of me on my Peloton as a default picture.
But that doesn’t actually mean I want you to complement me on it. I use nudity as a hook to get noticed, but when guys start waxing philosophical about my tits it’s a total turnoff.
Just talk to a guy about his wife like a human being and not like a piece of meat and you’ll do better.
when couples post naked pics and I comment and or compliment,they get mad,-- why?????? I always say that I appreciate the pics,with respectful chat.