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Mike - you really should have started your own thread but since others have addressed you here I will as well.

At a guess I'd say your default profile photo is the reason few people look at your profile. The tough guy or even a neutral expression is not terribly appealing. I'm not sure if you were concentrating to take a selfie or what but delete that photo. Use one of the photos of the two of you smiling as your default and you'll do a lot better.

Once people see your profile they may be shying away because the text sounds like a guy with a fantasy whose wife is unaware.

If she is aware then y'all need to rewrite your text and get over your impatience. Making connections online is not necessarily a quick or easy process - especially if you think you can just sit back and wait for others to contact you. You need to search and make initial contact as well. It will take time.

Good luck, have fun and stay safe!

~Phoebert's Wife

CaptionLuke - hope you've read other profiles and realize that some of us that offer advice are a bit opinionated and blunt.

The run-on sentences and excessive use of the word "fun" really make your profile painful to read. As Mayhem already stated you could benefit from reading advice offered to others. Answer the question implied in each section header and don't leave blank sections.

Since all your photos are generally face shots I'd delete any without a smile. Then add a full body picture of you when you're dressed nicely.

And don't say you've joined a couple months ago when your profile creation date is more than eighteen months ago.

Your profile is not the worst I've seen but it doesn't really say anything useful and it doesn't entice me to contact you.

Good luck, have fun and stay safe!

~Phoebert's Wife

Caption - All your profile says is that you want to have fun. It doesn't describe in any way what "fun" means to you, either in or out of the bedroom.

Both you and Mikey could get a lot out of reading prior posts with requests for profile help and trying to implement the general recommendations. It just gets old after a while saying the same things to people over and over again. I don't mind helping, but it goes a long way when someone shows they are at least trying to help themselves.

Mikey - It is also less confusing if you create your own new profile help topic rather than piggyback on someone else's.

OP caption" photos are 'ok" just get rid of any that dont show fun guy smiling.. the red shirt one does not do anything for you.. You have a great smile, now show one of you dressed up smiling and add a couple lines to what you like to do.. and you really should not have a problem.. we would consider meeting you.. Good luck relax, keep smiling and having fun.. we have going on well over 30 years!

MMG do you really think your photos are inviting.. not so , you look angry , and smiles from BOTH vs just ass or body photos do winders and you have been on how long and expect results.. wow and by the way who viewed me numbers mean absolutely nothing to hooking up.. that topic has been talked about and explained numerous times.. this is not FB

Swinging a long time and we get requests weekly and hooked up as recent as last week with a new person on SLS.. why we both had great photos something to say in our profile besides sex.. and met up immediately after a couple IM;s Your profile and photos tell a lot. Show your "fun" side ! Good luck.

I am having the same issue. My wife and I are getting very few views and almost nobody messaging us. I know we are a good looking couple because anyone that we message almost always hits us up in return and tells us both how attractive we are. we want to have the best experience possible but can't do that if we have to spend hours a day looking for other couples profile by profile . It's like anything else the more views you get the more followers you'll have so we need to figure out what we did wrong or what we didn't do while building our profile otherwise we both feel like we are just spinning our wheels and getting almost nowhere can someone help us fix this issue. My wife is an impatient person and if this keeps up like it is before long she will just give up on this site and I know we would be missing out on a tremendous amount of fun all because somewhere when I set up I didn't check a box that should have been checked. I feel like with how the two of us look, act, our hobbies and interests, and our sense of adventure we should be getting approached by couples on a regular basis and I have asked several people if I'm just being impatient or even overconfident and they all tell me the same thing. We should be smashing other couples every day if we wanted to something jsnt completed and people aren't able to even see our profile unless we have viewed/messaged them ourselves first. Please anyone help me diagnose and fix this quick. Thanks in advance to anyone who can and does help

I just join sls a couple of months ago and I don't know if it's pics or my profile can someone take a look and let me what u think