Is something in our profile wrong?

Luke & Crys - please start your own thread requesting help with your profile so advice for you is not confused with advice for the OP.

Are we not interesting to people? I have no idea what I'm doing were new as can be at this

Hi. There's nothing wrong with the way you look, although your photos could use some work. I'd get rid of the one that is your current default and use number two or three instead. I'd also get rid of number 10. Not all photos transfer well and that one just looks pixelated. Next time you take new pics, maybe have him smile more.

In terms of your profile, I've been trying to figure out how to say this nicely but still describe the problem. Basically, it's full of cliches and ends with you sounding uninteresting. The bad part and what I don't have an answer for is why, because I see glimmers of the cool couple that your photos indicate.

So, I'm just going to go with what's wrong and hope you can figure out how to fix things.

First, your tagline is meh. Try something that wouldn't cover most of the lifestyle population instead.

In Looking For, "like minded," "inside and outside the bedroom" and "icing on the cake" eliminate any sense that I'm reading something new by someone new.

In Description, eliminate or move to Additional comments the one about having photos open. I'd eliminate it and just have a policy of answering any message without one by saying I wanted to see what they looked like before starting the conversation, but you do you. Just not in this section.

Cliches: fun loving, down to Earth, easy going

But even if you get rid of them, you haven't done a great job of differentiating yourselves from all the other fun loving, down to earth, easy going couples. Instead of what you have, including the parts that touch on sex, give real flavor. What are some of the things you like to do? Foodies? Snake charming? Gaming wizards? We're all unique, so show some of that.

I'd also not use the word shy. Shy or not, if you're going to meet people, you're going to have to talk to them and do your part to make it easy. So, just go with the awkwardness in person and don't mention it in your profile.

Fantasies is good. But if you enjoy helping others with their fantasies, that suggests you have some experience, which is an actual selling point. So, say something about that.

Additional comments is pretty pointless as currently written. You can more or less run with the idea that if people like what they've read they will indeed contact you. So, something else. Including the part about wanting photos. But follow it up with a funny sentence that explains why or something, because you want to end on a high note.

Most of us have a slow start here, because that's the nature of this site. But you can improve things a little.

Best of luck.

Not a lot of success connecting with others. Was it something we wrote or simply the way we look?