Hello, I checked out your profile after you made some changes.
Your one picture is terrific. It’s hard to beat a good smile and yours makes you seem warm and inviting.
The body of your profile is generally good. It would benefit from specific info about you. Are you bi? Do you require condoms? Are you comfortable with older women?
Good luck in your searches. Be patient, stay involved on the forum, go to clubs and parties that allow single men.
Mr.H
Hi. Welcome to the cage match. It's well meant though, with the ultimate goal of increasing your opportunities to make connections and have the kind of sex you want.
I really like your current default photo. The rest can just go die. If I never have to see anyone's bathroom again (unless I need to use it), it will be too soon. Follow Velma's advice and please remember to smile.
Your tagline is quite good, particularly since I'm guessing your name really is Joe.
Looking For would benefit from complete sentences - I am looking for - and spell check (I before e except after c, etc.), but it's decent. Just...nobody knows what "like minded" is, including everyone who uses that meaningless phrase. Be clearer about what you actually want and avoid clichés. That will increase your chances of finding what you're looking for.
Description is okay. There are a few topics of conversation, which is always good. It lacks some sparkle, but it's fine. If you want to add more, think about the things that make you the unique individual you are and let some of that show through. It's our ability to reach out with words that gets people interested.
Fantasies is good.
Additional comments - can you host? That might be something you could put here.
Good luck.
Definitely check out Velma for picture advice - she has a great system for the core pictures to have in your public gallery. My advice is simple - smile, avoid selfies (yours are particularly bad) and watch for clutter in the background. Your picture in front of the hedge is good so keep that one and ditch all the rest. There is no need to resort to selfies - just about anyone you ask will take a picture of you (other tourists if you are out sightseeing, waitress or hostess if you are at a restaurant or even a friend if you're out doing something fun).
In Looking For you might want to add if you are looking for on-going, FWB type arrangements, on-time encounters or something in between (or all of the above). The phrase "like-minded" doesn't mean much - we don't know your mind given the little bit in your profile - so figure out what you really mean and say that instead.
In Description you might want to add more things you like to do other than travel and continue your education. The more options people have to find something in common with you, the more chances you have that people will contact you.
Fantasies is OK but you don't want to leave the Add'l Comments section blank. Hopefully someone else will have a good idea for that because I'm not coming up with anything. Or read some other profiles and copy something that you like (just don't copy the legal crap that some people have - it is an urban legend and/or hoax).
Also - you should copy all your text into a computer word processor to compose your profile. Once you are happy then run a spell check and grammar check - your grammar isn't bad but you have a lot of sloppy spelling errors. Then copy each section back to SLS.
Good luck and have fun!
~Phoebert's Wife
Kill every single mirror selfie. Nobody looks good in the bathroom.
I opened a private section of my galleries to show you the kind of pictures you should have.
You live in California, near the beach. Go out with friends and take pictures. Take at least one shirtless picture at the beach. Do it in the morning so the sun will be in the east and illuminating you and the water.
Hey everyone, I would really appreciate if I could get some feedback on my profile that would make it better.
