Here comes the roasting .

Marcola, OR, Us

Thanks. P wife. I wondered what the secret was to getting paragraph spacing. Mine never seems to come out the way U want here!

I generally use my phone and the website. I'm going to get on my laptop tonight after work and see about tweaking this thing.

Fort Payne, AL, Us

I always compose my profile text in a word processor and then copy it to SLS when I'm happy with it. I've been known to make numerous small changes over several hours and sometimes sleep on it before being satisfied - no way do I want to wait for SLS approval after every small tweak. And then I save it just in case something happens to the online version.

Biggest gotcha is the need to put three blank lines (hit Enter four times) between the first and second paragraph of each section to end up with one blank line. For all additional paragraphs you only need one blank line (hit Enter twice). Same thing works in forum postings.

Marcola, OR, Us

Wow, thanks! I've been looking at this section and taking advice y'all have given others.
That pic of me in red was an attempt to be fancy, and it has barely made the cut a couple times, so it will go.

Hubby seems to always look good. One of my faves is the "Bigfoot" shot on the hill. It doesn't have good enough resolution to zoom, but it's very HIM

Last time I updated our profile, I copied it ask into a Word document so I could see it all: how it sits, how it reads, spacing,
punctuation, etc. If anyone else wants to know-- it helped a lot!

Phoenix, AZ, Us

Hi. There will be no roasting and you needn't make your profile shorter. You are, after all, quite chatty and I think that comes through nicely. The idea isn't some standard profile, but one that reflects you and I think you've done that. Which is why, even though you're all over the map in your categories, I'm not going to suggest many changes at all.

"Neither is looking for full anal, but touching isn’t a problem" can go altogether (and insert a blank line between your paragraphs in that section) and "Unless it's really painful or involves potty play" should probably change to "With a few exceptions..." The specifics are really best left to discussion with potential playmates, partly because they're great topics and partly because it's just too much detail where there doesn't need to be.

Other than that, everyone within a few hundred miles has probably seen your photos by now, so even though you are happy with how representative they are, they aren't currently doing you any favors. Take new ones and then take @sorillo's advice on cropping.

When you upload the new photos, change your tagline too. The combination will get you increased views, which might translate to increased opportunities.

Good luck. Also? Your profile was a pleasure to read.

Fresno, CA, Us

Also, for any pic that you use as your default, crop it into a square, and be mindful of the overlay crap that SLS dumps on. Like the friend button.

Fort Payne, AL, Us

I like your profile - your personality really shines and it's easy to read.

You could cut back on some detail - especially information that is covered in your stats and toggles or that is evident in your pictures.

Some of your pictures could be cropped a bit to emphasize you guys more. I'd probably delete the picture of her in the red shirt - it's a really bad angle and you have other good pictures of her.

You sound like you're a lot of fun and I imagine you do well making new friends.

Stay safe!

~Phoebert's Wife

Marcola, OR, Us

I've been trying to figure out how to get my profile shorter and still hit the high points. I also want our personality to show, and use descriptive words. And I'm chatty!

I know we need some new pix, and some of them are a few years old, but all show is basically how we are now, highlighting things we like to do.

I still need some advice, so just know I'm ready for the rough stuff!