Feedback on profile please

I like your profile, and we would meet a couple like you based on the strength of your current profile. However, there’s always room for improvement.

I disagree with Mayhem’s comment regarding “like minded”. While I usually don’t like that term, in this case since you just described what you are looking for, that term is acceptable in that paragraph.

I do agree that by leaving the last section blank, you’ve missed an opportunity. For example, you live in an area that’s not known as a hotbed of swinger activity, we would want to know if you are willing to travel.

Lose your third picture. It’s the same pose as the 2nd photo, so it seems a bit redundant. I love the warmth that you show in your first picture. I’m wondering if you can do some minor tweaking with a good photo editor. Because of perspective, and the lighting, the pic is a bit busy, visually. At the very least, crop or burn out the lamp post light in the top left. Maybe crop the top to reduce the amount shown of the building behind you. Adjust the exposure so that the picture “pops”; you are losing too mush detail in the darker areas.

Good luck with your new adventure!

PS - Where you are likely to find what you are "Looking For" is at lifestyle (LS) events, so it might be worth putting in the Looking For section that you'd be interested in someone familiar with LS events that could attend with you and show you around.

In Looking For, the word "open minded" tends to infer that you might be up for Bi play, even though your toggles are set to straight. It also sounds like you are initially looking for a "watch and perhaps be watched" scenario, so that would more explicitly say what you are actually looking for. Things that are optional but of interest can also be listed here. For example, if you have a preference for another mixed race couple or that you're looking for long term friends with benefits. The more explicit (to a point) that you can be here the better your chances to find a match.

In Description, there is no need for physical description. That's what the pictures are for. Use this to indicate what fun things (besides sex) that you like to do and something about your nature/personalities that pictures can't always show.

The Fantasies/Experiences section looks pretty good except for the word "like minded". It is so vague as to be meaningless and you're better off just leaving it out and just saying specifically what you're looking to find in common.

Leaving the last section blank is a missed opportunity. Look for ideas in other profiles but things like your availability (i.e. weekends are best) and if you could host or not are examples of things you could put there.

I see no reason why any of you pics would have been flagged as anything other than G-rated so it should have allowed a default setting. You have nice smiles in some of your pics and most are decent and you look both fun and attractive.

Don’t describe each other ie: “she has long black hair.” This is what pictures are for.

So... in general I would stay away from you two because you two are boring. You are a “maybe” for soft swap and she doesn’t even like girls. What the fuck are we meeting your for? If I wanted to meet a couple and not fuck, I would have a parent-teacher conference.

Please rethink what you want out of the lifestyle. If you are one of those “feel the sexy vibe” people, it’s fine but recognize that you will have fewer options.

If the idea of kissing another woman makes your wife vomit in her mouth a little, then keep her as straight. Else, just list her as “bi-curious” or you will miss our on a lot of opportunities. About 70% of the women on here are bi, or just like light play because it’s fun.

Make the changes. Take full body pictures and repost.

First of all. Fuck the Phillies and that goddam traitor Bryce Harper. I hope you like that asshole, you’ e Got him signed for the next 40 years.

But regarding your profile- now that you are in Florida, lose the Phillies and Sixers gear. I like Joel Enmbid (especially how hard he fought last night) and Ben Simmons, but some people may have a visceral reaction to an outside sports team in Florida.

I am being 100% honest here. I would not reach out to you simply because of what Bryce Harper did to the Nationals.

I opened a private section for you to show you the kind of pictures you should have.

Ideally, you should have a picture of what you would look like on a DATE, a picture of you at an EVENT, a picture of you at the BEACH or a pool, a pic of the CHICK and a pic of HIM.

The two most important pictures are your DATE and BEACH picture. I want to know what you will look like if I meet you for a date. If you roll in looking like a bag of smacked assholes, I won’t be interested.

Don’t take any pictures if you aren’t smiling. Get rid of picture #3. You look angry.

I’m going to talk about your profile settings next.

Regarding the default profile pic thing-make sure you press the default button on the computer not on my phone. If it’s not working contact tech-support. This is been a problem lately. I’ll take a look at your profile next.

Hello all, just looking for some feedback on the profile. Also wondering why our default pic isn't showing!