Do we look to old?

Niskayuna, NY, Us

OP: you guys look great, but do agree that your profile needs more substance to attract couples who not only seek play partners but also other like-minded couples who can add that extra spark! And we’ve learned that age is just a number, yet with age comes more experience and greater sexual freedom. Remember to not focus so much on the destination, but to enjoy the journey along the way!!
~Kira

mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

Well if the OP looks too old, we are in real trouble...lol You guys look awesome and we'd have no problem getting together with you if you like.

I can say that there is a LOT of activity in our area and, based on our success, you guys shouldn't be having any problem finding couples.

That said, we have gotten to know a lot of people through local LS parties. I can pass along info on those if you're interested.

We are to a point where we have our own private (by invitation only) parties at our house and the invite list for our last big one was around 100 people, with 90+% of those being couples. There are definitely a lot of LS couples in our area.

Charles Town, WV, Us

“Do we look to old?”

They’re both look old enough that they should retire very soon............

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..........to our bed.

She should bring that red shirt too!

:-)

~Allen

Virginia Beach, VA, Us

Do me a favor and kill the picture with the Ferris wheel in the background. Neither of you were smiling.

The mail half has an interesting face-it’s very rugged and angular-kind of like a super villain. He’s not unattractive-but you have to watch the angles.

One of your problems is that he is 7 inches taller than her-so anytime you take a selfie with her he’s going to be dipping his head down at a really weird angle. My best suggestion is stop taking selfie’s.

The lady half needs to wear 4 inch heels. If the situation doesn’t call for heels-she needs to stand on her tiptoes before someone takes a picture.

Atkinson, NH, Us

I want to thank everybody for the help. We will fixing up our profile. I will post later for further opinions.

Chris and Cindy

Virginia Beach, VA, Us

I would be suspicious of you because you don’t have any pictures of you together.

I opened a private gallery so you can see the kinds of pictures you should have.

Edit your profile on a computer. You have a few spelling, punctuation and capitalization mistakes.

Athens, TN, Us

y'all look great, not old looking at all. i would add some sexy pictures after all we are all looking for the same thing, SEX lol

Eau Claire, WI, Us

Not at all!

Phoenix, AZ, Us

No, of course you don't look took too old. Your profile is kind of an afterthought though. Like, there isn't really much content and I certainly wouldn't reach out to you based on anything in it.

I can give specific suggestions, you can check the last 10 or so threads for what advice others have gotten, or you can just go back to the drawing board, this time with the idea in mind that this is your resume and you need to shine a bit to capture the attention of others.

Saginaw, MI, Us

Too old? Absolutely not.

Gorgeous, classy and sophisticated? Yes!

Fresno, CA, Us

First, welcome to the forums. There's a great bunch of folks here, and I hope you'll stick around. Besides, we can use new victi..... errr, new blood. :)

You look fine in the photos. You're definitely an attractive couple. But the photos you've chosen are kind of drab. Two things that are really important for profile photos are big smiles that show you having fun, and photos that show you doing something or in a location that is interesting. Your photos are rather lacking on both counts. It's an easy fix, so don't feel bad about it. Check out the other threads in this section for Velma's Debauch method for photos. It's a really good system to start out with.

The other thing is that your profile text is rather generic and focused exclusively on sex. I don't get an impression of you as individuals, as a couple. For many of us, we need to have a common intellectual/cultural/chemistry connection just as much as our sexual connection. So you should look at adding some NON-sexual info about you that helps others connect. The thing is, there's a totally awesome couple in you, just waiting to burst out and meet new people, but your profile doesn't communicate that yet.

Take a look through some of the other Better Profiles threads to see what advice has been given to others. You'll find that a LOT of that advice will apply to you as well. Then sit down together and have some fun composing your profile.

Good luck!

Fort Worth, TX

You guys look great. You may be in an area where the LS is just not that prevalent. We lived in Michigan the past two years and connected with very few people. Now that we are back in Texas, we get invited to parties almost every weekend (headed for one tonight). If you ever make it down to DFW, we would love to play with you.

Theresa and Chris

Atkinson, NH, Us

We really don't get any couples hits. Maybe the profile? We would appreciate any advise.