Wedding Ring Poll

Droptops wedding ring is actually a watch I gave her so she tattooed a ring on her finger so it's obviously always on when she plays lol

If somebody decides on "B" or "C," we're not going to be interested. In the spirit of "it isn't cheating, if he watches," if the ring is a problem, there is shit going on behind the curtain that we want no part of... including the associated drama. If you want to cheat, that's up to you, we just aren't going to aid and abet.

Again, unless someone is at a party alone and there is concern about cheaters, swinger couples are at a party to have sex with other swing couples and the vast majority of them are going to be married, so the whole thing about wearing a ring or not just seems like an odd question in the context of swinging.

If you're looking to pick up people in a vanilla venue, that's one thing, but in a LS venue, it really shouldn't matter. If it does, you can always ask.

because of the amount of punching and chopping I do, I do not wear a ring. Once met a couple and they asked "how is a person supposed to know you are married if you don't wear a ring?" my answer, "I will tell you if you need to know."

We always leave ours on.

Definitely leave it on.

Wedding rings add to the erotic energy. The bigger the rock the better, and I've seen some boulders!

Add me to the list of "Why would I take my ring off, or even move it?". If I'm at a swinger party, I don't even bother looking for rings on either hand, unless you're there alone. We do not knowingly play with cheaters. Part of the appeal of swinging is that you have one less reason to cheat.

Why would a ring deter people within the context of ethical non-monogamy?

Hot, "Never take mine off. It doesn’t seem to deter anyone. lol" It excite them more. Kathy, did the men ask for your number? That just fucked look is great especially when the women walks back into the bar from being in the parking lot.

Always wear mine.. its "fun" to see the vanilla looks and it does attract swingers at places like dance venues / restaurants we attend wheres swingers meet!

After a great night out in St Pete with our fly in SLS FWB's.. leaving the hotel, stopping for coffee with a short dress and heels at 5:30 AM, hair looks like the just F 'd look.. you should have seen the guys faces!

Never take mine off. It doesn’t seem to deter anyone. lol

Always leave it on my ring finger.... I'm not trying to deceive anyone.... I'm a married woman.... Even with a strangers cock deep inside my pussy... I'm still married

Not many things more erotic than having a Hotwife playing with her wedding ring on.

I had a husband's wedding ring stroking me a couple days ago...Mary Jo

When I first started swinging I was reluctant to fuck a married woman...I was still straight in more ways than one back then. Mary Jo

I'm not sure how removing a wedding ring would make anyone look more like a swinger. They'd just look like they might be single and we still wouldn't know if they were a swinger, or not. Unless, you're looking for guys hoping to hook up with a single girl, like in regular dating. If that's the case, he's sure going to be surprised to find out the lady is married and the hubby is in on it! Seems a bit deceptive.

After over 20 years in the LS, I can't remember a single couple that removed or moved a wedding ring they otherwise normally wore. Maybe it's a thing and I never knew. We found people by other signals. In fact, we always preferred hooking up with married couples, so the wedding ring was a good sign for us.

Your actions anywhere will show you are open.. YES we do this all the time and singles and couples at bars get it quickly!

We get what you are saying its just not something we do..

Haha Rustic, I didn’t want to be first. Wife and I haven’t worn our rings regularly for over 20 years. Neither being jewelry people the rings were just very uncomfortable. We’ll wear them for special occasions, weddings, new year, whenever we get dressed to the nines.

The wife lost hers (it was a wrap around with the engagement ring) about 15 or so years ago. Despite me offering to get her a replacement she has never really wanted it. In fact she does not really wear jewelry and even before it was lost she only really wore it when we went out. Of course that is really not the answer you were looking for. Oh and I want to add I don't wear mine and really did not after a few months of being married. I have met too many guys who do actual work with missing or severely damaged ring fingers. In fact I would say that is likely a reason she does not wear jewelry as well. There is nothing like being married to a woman who will dive into an engine compartment or whatever project/repair quicker than you can.

H not sure how that is a signal that you are a swinger. It just says, "Look! I moved my ring over so I can cheat on my husband." That's what single guy at a bar will see when he notices the indention where you had the ring on the left. Also, a ring isn't going to deter a man from wanting to have sex or increase your chances. Really just sounds like you all like messing with the cheating fantasy thing many men are into. That's fine if that is your thing. We stay as far as we can from the hint of cheating even in role play. Wearing your ring and hearing your husband say, "Have fun" as you walk out of the bar with another man is a sure sign you're a swinger.

I’ve only taken my ring off twice, and that was for a CAT scan and Surgery.

I don’t wear my engagement ring all the time, though, but it’s also a $16,000 ring so... it only goes on my finger when we go out.

Oh I’m not asking in context of cheating - I have been placing it on my right hand as an indication that I am open to advances from other men or to signal to non vanilla friends we are swingers also. Hubby always wears his on left. Mine is always on one hand or the other. Wanted to see if others do the same.

We leave ours on & most married couples we play with do as well. Swinging is not cheating. It's between consenting adults who are not looking for replacements. Well, we aren't anyway. :D

I love seeing the wedding ring on the person i am playing with...Mary Jo