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Ladies... Question for all of you: I don't mean to be crude, but ever feel like sex revolves around the almighty dick? I was thinking about what I like about girl/girl play the ot…
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Foot Hygiene
Why do women have the tendency to cut their toenails so freakin short. Toe nail length should be the length of your toe. Cutting them shorter then that makes the look ugly as well…
by bagman543replies680viewsFirst Reaction
Ladies...What crossed your mind the moment you saw your first erect penis?
by oldsalt_19422replies649viewsGetting off
My partner and I have a great sec life. He knows exactly what he is doing with my body and can make me cum almost on demand ;). We are experienced swingers and have enjoyed a lot…
17replies1,758viewsUser Names Can they be a turn off?
So ladies, I'm wondering if any of the rest of you have that experience. That the person or couple isn't bad looking, profile ok, but the user name is just so either gross or ridi…
by redlittlepet16replies1,128viewsWhere are the bi women who actually like women?
Not a fetish. Not a "play" thing. Not a "let's do this to turn on the guys" thing. Where are the women who are proudly bi and who actually want women? By the way, I swear to whate…
by Esperanza9116replies548viewscustomized calendar ?
does anyone know of a website that I can upload some of my nude photos to that I can get made into a calendar? I've looked and haven't been successful at finding any that specific…
by creamykd0replies415viewsSingle Male Pics
What kind of pics do you want to see of a single male if you are a couple seeking one?
by OH2NY2NC20220replies303viewsSingle Male Pics
What kind of pics do you want to see of a single male if you are a couple seeking one?
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Men
What ever happen to women liking a tall, handsome, dark hair man, who is a professional, makes good money, drives a nice car, etc. I see so many little twerps on this site. Many i…
by OH2NY2NC202245replies2,266viewsBBC licking kitty
Hello SLS members: There appears to be a myth out there about BBC's Not liking to lick kitty (Not true). Frankly licking kitty to (2-3) orgasms is Required fore-play for me. Such…
by Zulu0084replies1,130viewsWhat does - Sucks at eating pussy - mean?
Made mention of this in the prior thread but thought it deserved it's own topic. I've heard women say this and honestly am not sure how someone could do it so wrong that they suck…
by mayhem815replies1,480viewsDo women really enjoy a larger man?
Do women really enjoy a larger man? It seems by my accounts the answer is yes. I am quite over the average length and thickness, and women seem to go crazy over my cock, but I rec…
11replies3,267viewsBest vibrator for small sensitive clit
Looking for advice. Most vibrators sound like outboard motors and overstimulate even on the lowest setting in my experience. I need a gentle vibrator. Any help out there for a wom…
by DuckDuckGone2replies682viewsSTIs? How often is this a concern or problem
One thing we’re trying to get a handle on is the likelihood of getting an STI in the lifestyle. Curious about your thoughts and experiences.
by DuckDuckGone0replies575viewsPercentage female bisexual?
Any guesses on the percentage of LS couples with bisexual female?
by DuckDuckGone22replies2,012viewsPT-141? July 2021
Anyone have personal knowledge and review Of pt-141...?? For female use??
by Nikkifrench1replies573viewsExplain the stag-vixen thing
I’m not understanding this. The female gets much…what does the “stag” get? I’m male and just can’t fathom the psychology here. To me, it’s pluses for the woman and nix for the man.
by DuckDuckGone21replies2,698viewsHow to find a LS friendly OB/Gyn?
Does anyone have any advice on how to find a LS friendly GYN? We are only a year into the LS, but we think it makes sense to find a female doc that understands the LS and with who…
12replies1,643viewsHow long did it take to find a great experience?
We have been on a few dates but haven’t found a couple we are both in to. We have been at it for about 4-5 months. Is this normal? So far the couples have been very unequally matc…
12replies2,371viewsMy wife is too fat
(I apologize for the click bait subject heading) My wife has gained almost 10 pounds in the past year. She is horrified. Ok, gun to my head, yes she looks better when she’s lighte…
by hotluvrs5replies1,571viewsGood place to buy corset?
Looking to surprise a lady friend of mine with a corset and wondering where is a good place to get one. Not looking for the serious waist training type, more of a costume/lingerie…
9replies743viewsAre there any meet up/coffee groups for LS women in the Greater Boston area?
Are there any lifestyle women who get together for coffee or a drink to talk about lifestyle stuff? I'm not looking for a "play" group, just a casual group of women who like to ta…
by Acadia60replies370viewsBest firm nonsqueeking mattress bed setup
Need to buy a new bed and looking for any good recommendations for a firm, stable, nonsqueeking setup. Any suggestions?
by DuckDuckGone13replies1,467viewsFor Her
when my wife and I first got together she was an oral goddess! however over the years she has developed a not sure if it is a physical ailment, or mental. we have discussed it the…
by Evieluv077replies1,137viewsNew to lifestyle, do some women only like couples?
We had a FMF threesome with a good friend and while I thought it was hot to watch I came away from it with no orgasm. Are there women who don’t really like FMF threesomes?
21replies1,972viewsStill new. Getting ready for first Bull
My husband and I are still kinda new. We've been with 1 couple, a lot of soft play at club. We have just set up a date with our first bull any suggestions on how I can not be so n…
by Beme19666replies1,527viewsQuestion to women who self identify as a poor communicators
I met an amazing woman, we get along great, we both have quirky personalities and similar senses of humor, but one thing I am trying to learn more about is she feels anxiety that…
3replies580viewsSIZE REQUIREMENT S
I have a question for the ladies. I have been in the lifestyle for decades and I notice a LOT (but not all) single girls and ladies from couples will state on their profile they w…
by 9INCHFREAK9replies2,405viewsWhat do you look for?
1. A guy who is smiling in his photos and is clean looking. 2. I look for profiles that show that he is able to have an intelligent conversation and he doesn't talk about how gift…
16replies1,617viewsWhat's the value of a man staying hard for well over the average time?
I'm relatively new to SLS but after reading a few posts in this forum, I've discovered that there are many views and criteria for a man's performance, appearance, and his cock. So…
by RoscoeBrowne35replies3,595viewsMYTHBUSTER: Drinking pineapple juice to make a man's cum taste sweet=NOT
Drinking pineapple juice to make a man's cum taste better is utter BS!!! My wife drank a glass at breakfast and at bedtime every day this week. She said I still taste the same!
13replies2,167viewsOrgasm from touch of areas that Were Not Mammary, Vaginal,or Analp
The other day in an off site conversation an individual stated that "they had achieved a knee buckling, body shaking orgasm from casual touch" in an area that was not related to M…
by PeaceMaker2replies769viewsWhy do married women have a single profile account
I have a question for the ladies in this forum. Why do some married women who already have a couple profile on this site also have a "single female profile" when their not single?…
by 9INCHFREAK7replies1,040viewsKegals
Do any of you have a regular kegal workout routine? I had pelvic reconstruction a few years ago, and if I don't do my exercises, I can tell. I usually do them at night as I fall a…
by Young2Ginger12replies2,016viewsSera Vital ?
Have any of you senior ladies ever take these and had any positive results from them in regards to menopause symptoms? Asking for a friend ??
by JackpotRandC0replies600viewsBi men in the lifestyle
Hey there ladies I was just wondering what your position is on having sex with a man that is bi in the lifestyle? Is it a problem or are you ok with it?
by RedandPJ307replies1,746viewsSuper picky .is this always going to be a problem?
Please help me! My husband and I are relatively new to this, so I really want the women's advice here. I notice how many beautiful women there are in the lifestyle... I mean BEAUT…
by SnM44ever27replies2,345viewsSo, you have been on SLS for 5 years, and you are still bi*curious* .
NOW do you see what the problem is with that label?
by Esperanza91150replies4,376viewsWedding Ring Poll
Ladies When you are looking to play, do you wear your wedding ring: a) on your left hand ring finger? b) move to your right hand? c) take it off? If b, or c - please explain
by h_ms4153replies6,173viewsTrying to understand and open up .
My husband is the one who believes we need to swap partners and have fun. He believes it will bring us closer together. Don't get me wrong apart if this makes me curious. But to a…
by Backwoods137replies982viewsThe Bachelorette
Is anyone watching The Bachelorette this season? Claire “Hold on and let me go start some shit” Crawley makes my crazy look normal.
6replies948viewsHow long does Menapause last? lol
ok my mrs just turned 64 and has had Hot flashes and all the other dreaded effects of this since she was 52. Took the pills ,used the patch etc , no relief. Sure put a damper on p…
by JackpotRandC14replies1,500viewsJoint Replacement
I'd like to hear from any lifestyle women who have had a major joint replacement, esp the hip. How long did you wait to go back to parties? What about 1:1 play? Did you just avoid…
7replies749viewsCumming too soon or can't get hard; Which is the lessor evil?
These are kind of both ends of the extreme, but I'm sure neither are options a woman typically feels are desirable. I say "typically", because if it's the 8th guy in a gang bang,…
by mayhem88replies1,169viewsDo you enjoy watching two men have sex?
I would love to watch two men have sex. Not sure how to fulfill this fantasy. My husband is 100% straight, but he is okay with me watching two other men. Any of you ladies out the…
by JDean92980replies8,047viewsTalkative guy
ladies is too much talking a turn off? I know im not a "HI" guy and im also not "I wanna fuck you tonite" guy. Is the general consensus i wont answer him in hopes they'll just go…
by Xjayxx7replies760viewsBest pick up lines ever!!! Or even the worst!
We want to here from ladies. Best pick up line ever. The worst! Swinger couple? Theeesome, mmf, ffm? Vanilla? How do it go over? Come on let’s have some good fun with this!
by Sohot6818replies3,248viewsDo you like the taste of cum?
Ladies, do you like the taste of cum? I find it to be sometimes sweet but mostly salty. I do like it because it seems like the finish to the play but I'm curious how other women f…
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