Pulling a train

I’m not real sure about the gang bang idea it seems like it would be a lot more overwhelming for me.

I appreciate the advice. I hadn’t thought about some of the things brought up.

The Mrs has done a few gangbangs, but they've all been unplanned. It is good advice to have someone watching out for you. For my Mrs, that was obviously me and I was also an active participant in all cases. In addition to making sure condoms are used and staying hydrated, making sure the Mrs stayed well lubed prevented her from being sore the next day.

It is also very true what GGMM said about this not being of interest to all guys, so rounding up guys at a club may not be as easy as one might expect.

As someone that does their own house parties, we have a list of well vetted guys, but finding local private house parties can also be difficult. If you can find a couple local to you that does house parties AND allows SMs at their parties, they may be able to hook you up. To find local house parties you could try posting a Hot Date where you're looking to attend a private house party. You may get lucky. Make the Hot Date for a Fri and/or Sat night, as that's when most tend to happen.

I know that, if asked by someone in our local area, I would likely help set one up if I had a woman or couple that asked me. With me being me, I'd also feel obligated to make sure I had that person's back, but it is easier for us because I'd know and already trust all of the guys attending.

FWIW - A "train" is usually gangbang in the classic sense, meaning the guys line up and do a girl one after the other. The vast majority of LS women we know that like multiple guys prefer to do from 2-4 guys at a time, take a break, then do another round or two of the same, more or less. This usually works out better for everyone, so just letting you know that this is also an option vs a train.

As to # of people to invite, that really depends on the guys invited. Some guys can last for an hour or more alone and do multiple rounds, so 3 guys like that can be more overwhelming than a dozen or so regular guys. The average guy cums in 5-7 mins and probably close to 50% of them are one-and-done.

Younger doesn't always = longer or more frequent. The Mrs made a guy pop in 90 secs or so from a BJ, and he was a one-and-done. We found out later that the guy was only 21 years old. On the other side of the age spectrum, the Mrs made a friend around 60 years old cum from a hand job in about a minute. While she was very flattered in both cases, neither got to a point of being able to fuck her. Just more things to consider.

Lisa2night, both clubs in the Seattle area have gang bang nights. It's probably the safest way to explore that scenario, but you'd have to round up your own participants and it's not something every guy will be interested in. In some locations, there are also gang bang groups, with a rotating cast of reliable guys, that get together with one or more women, but I have no idea how you'd find one near you. If you do either one, it's probably better to have someone with you who can make sure condoms are used, that you stay hydrated, and aren't overwhelmed, and anything else you'd need to feel comfortable.

I did one years ago and it was fun, although not something I'd want to repeat, but I've watched a fair number and talked to the women after and apparently others like larger numbers of guys way more than I do.

@Lisa2night, this depends how you going to do this privately? In a club? Are you going to test your guys for STDs or hepatitis?

What is the number of people that constitute a "train" or a "gangbang"?
Does anyone have numbers of participants in mind?

So I’m curious about the whole train thing.
I’m very new to the lifestyle and am wondering about women’s experiences with trains. I’m seriously considering it, would really appreciate some input on it from more experienced females.