Once one meets face to face to evaluation and assess for some Skin on Skin. A false image or profile content just questions ability to trust sexual history or health. Additionally once one has applied their sense's then most is out , Open and Honest communication is always best in any Adult Life Style community.
Same reason why some only post filtered pictures….. They obviously have something they are insecure about. Not one person here is perfect but for god sake just accept who you are and don’t be fake. Someone sooner or later will find you as a match for them. Why try to portray yourself to be something you aren’t?
I want a seat like what's on a Honda Goldwing..
If you put the seat back on the bike your ass won't hurt
I cringe when I see bicyclist on busy roadways, Be careful out there, I could never do it....I rode a bike for 5 minutes a few months ago and was bored to death already.. and my butt hurt...
Esper911: Agree with you on this one!! As a mature SM I take health, fitness, hygiene and nutrition on a more consistent or serious side. For SM like myself I understand accurate pics and specs are crucial in order to maintain a Positive profile presence and regular Play-Dates within the SLS lifestyle community. It appears Negative (or inaccurate) SM info travels among the SLS couples community rather quickly... just keeping it real.
Why lie about ANY of it?
We have seen this especially from women but the guys do it too. Thing is we quit trying to "judge" someone's weight based on their size when our neighbor stated she was 135# when we were talking about how thin she is. It was a conversation about a year after she had her second child. Neither of us would have said she was over 110#. If she were lying she would have said 110# or something and not 135#.
BTW we know for the most part people lie so they look better. Wights lowered by 20-30# or more. Claiming to be 10 or more years younger. Old pictures or pictures taken from an angle not showing the belly. Push up bras and but enhancing underwear. Heck one could also include hair dye and makeup in the list of "lies" people tell. It is hard to find someone totally honest with others in regards to looks. The thing is we agree if the end "goal" is to get naked and have sex the truth will come out so why take such measures? This is something we will never understand.
When we were new we met a couple who lied about their weight close to 100lbs each. Very disappointing and deceptive. We try to keep ages, weight, and interests current. It's like anything, if you want good results, put in a little effort.
Shocker I know, but the age on my profile is incorrect. The weight probably is too, because it's from the last time I got an STI test at the walk in clinic that shut down during the first year of the pandemic due to only one of the practitioners being willing to see patients in person. I could be as much as 10 pounds heavier, although my clothing suggests not, but it's not like I care.
I'd be pretty pissed if someone I met outside of a website asked my age or my weight though, since in the first instance I'm not a school aged or younger child and in the second, what the fuck.
Travelers, I'll admit that I fudge my age stat a bit and I do it to be included in the SLS search and match results.
My pictures are current and my weight and height are accurate. So people can make their own determination as to whether we're a good fit. I'm told I do look younger than my numeric age so I don't consider it a lack of integrity to be included in matches slightly outside the specified age range. But what they see in my pictures is exactly what will show up at any meeting.
I guess you could say I'm trying to fool the SLS computers but still be honest with the humans reading my profile.
Agree 100%. The entire idea of not being realistic on height/weight (and age for that matter) seems ridiculous. We have only had it happen one time in a very significant way, when the couple we were meeting were a minimum of 10-15 years over stated age, plus the female was probably 50 or 75 pounds heavier than their listed weight and what their photos showed. Needless to say, we walked away and did not even sit down to have a drink with them.
Our stats are all correct with maybe a seasonable misalignment of +/- 5 pounds from summer to winter, and ages always within a few months. We also always have a "recent" private album with several pix being taken within the past few weeks or few months.
We have zero problem with anyone looking at our profile and deciding we are not for them as we are too old/fat/ugly/whatever to match their interests. That is always just a soft decline, like "we don't feel a match". We give those and we get those. No worries.
Why would anyone waste a rare night out being deceitful so they could be told face-to-face they are too old/fat/ugly/whatever, or to have the other couple take one look and walk away? To me that simply escapes any logical explanation.
We agree.. including photos !
Many fakes, flakes , liars and cheaters on SLS.. best to find your own select people and well they know what you want and how to please! Well worth it!
So I'm curious. . .in a situation where the ultimate goal is generally to see one another naked, why lie about your weight? Um. . .they're gonna know! Just be honest, what's the big deal. Regardless of your size you're going to be someone's cup of tea and not someone else's. But when we meet up with you and the female half of the couple is two inches taller than me, states she's 15 lbs less than I am, but is clearly significantly curvier than I am it makes no sense. This all works out we're going to see you without your clothes on and we're going to know you don't weight 130 lbs. It just seems so deceptive. If you can't be honest about your weight what else are you willing to be dishonest about. Seems like integrity would be important.
