Length or girth?

Gettysburg, PA

I like both, but if I have to choose it would be girth over length.

HollyBlueVeteran
Bangkok Noi, Th

You all aren't too far from this area. There are local parties semi-frequently where you could meet said gentleman.

But, the big issue is that a guy really knows how to handle himself. Have had some men with really nice dicks not use them well and I got bored pretty quickly with them.

Parties are good in that regard. You can test drive a few of them and see which one(s) you want to play with again.

Knoxville, TN, Us

A cock as thick as a 16 oz water bottle? Wow! That's quite something to enjoy. lol

Lake Havasu City, AZ, Us

I (Mrs. Fun) love having the full feeling. While sometimes length isn't a bad thing either. But I do love a man with a lot of girth. Mr fun has some nice girth to him so maybe in spoiled a little

Fort Payne, AL, Us

I don't like extreme length or girth - but girth wins over length. Unless someone bottoms out once things get going I can't tell how long he is but can always tell girth. Had a delightful time with a young man who was shorter than average but had the girth to keep my attention!

Phoebert's exwife liked the ones that curve up - called them "perky dicks" - great for hitting a G-spot during missionary. The "un-perky dicks" work well doggie style.

mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

Duh! Never answered the base question. The Mrs prefers girth over length, to a point. We tried a DVP before but it was too much, so the guy as thick as a 16 oz bottle mentioned earlier would be too much.

She has a BBC she plays with on occasion that is nearly 12", and he has to be careful not to go all the way in. Many claim to want 9+, but not the Mrs. It's visually appealing but the guy can't pound her like she enjoys because he bottoms out in her and it's uncomfortable. I'm only 7" tops, and I sometimes bottom out in her, depending on the angle.

Phoenix, AZ, Us

Eh. I can tolerate longer more easily than fatter. As to what gives me more pleasure, it's anything that fits without being challenging. I do like a curve, though. Those are fun.

MNTNcoupleRegular
Rochester, NH, Usa

I prefer length over girth. Hubby is nearly 12" long with a good curve to the left. He loves stretching me with girthy toys though because he loves the loose feeling. I, personally, want to make myself deeper with longer toys. So, we meet in the middle with long girthy toys and occasional DEEP fisting.

mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

Great topic. I've always heard women prefer girth over length but we'll have our own sample here to see how that plays out. I do suspect a number will say "both" ;-)

In addition to length and girth there's one other thing that makes a difference for the Mrs. Some guys are as straight as an arrow and others can curve up, down, left, or right.

One of the Mrs favs is neither particularly long or thick, but he has a noticeably upturned dick. In a missionary position he hits her g-spot in a way that I or others with straight dicks cannot. Many times this guy will make her squirt while fucking her. That is not all that common for the Mrs so this is saying something.

Another way this can happen is when a guys head is much wider than his shaft. The effect is similar in that the edge of his head can also hit the g-spot in a particularly nice way.

HollyBlueVeteran
Bangkok Noi, Th

Yes. I love both. I really like different lengths and shapes for hitting different spots. Really love the 9+ ones for any position with me on top. I also love good combinations of both. A good friend is roughly the size of a 16oz water bottle and is one of my favorites in terms of girth and length. If I can have a few of both in the same room then it is absolutely ideal.

Knoxville, TN, Us

Just curious to know what you girls prefer? What gives you the most pleasure, length or girth? Why? In my case, the latter. I like the stretching feeling more than anything.