Get a tattoo around it and turn it into a snake or a crack in the earth with demons escaping.
Some people want perfection and will not accept a scar. Some have scars worst then you .
Most won't care.
You could always do what guys do when we get a scar from doing something stupid. " there I was, a charging grizzly bear and all I had was my pocket knife..."
I (male) treat each of mine differently. My hope is that they're ignored and brought up at my own comfort. I don't feel embarrassed by their appearance at all. But some were incurred through violence, and I'd rather they be cosmetic only and not the topic of conversation at a meet. Can be difficult when one is a 3/4" gash between the eye and temple. And the other is a 2" slice on the throat.
I bet a psychologist would say my penchant for a low fitting ball cap and facial hair is my attempt to hide the scars.
My previous LS lover had breast cancer while we were seeing each other, she was so self cautious about revealing her breast with me until I finally told her relax, then while I rubbed and kissed her scars softly I thanked her for sharing them with me.
~Allen
FlipFlops_and_Droptop my post was misread re: average-sized c###" I meant I do not care about such things as size. I am not a 'size queen". It is such a vulgar term. It is what is between the ears that counts more I believe
From a guys perspective . . . . which may not count, but . . . .
We all have “scars” some emotional, some physical, but with maturity those scars go from being possibly embarrassing to sexy as they prove we have lived, we are comfortable in our skin, and we accept!
Just saying, be proud!!
Self - confidence, when real and not cocky, is so darn attractive. Perhaps self-confidence are not the right words; perhaps 'self- reality' ie: full acceptance of every part of me..hmmm. makes me warm and fuzzy to think about this . I love the way orgasm for example.
The thing is you have to deal with it yourself first. As has been mentioned the most attractive women I have ever met were simply the most accepting of how they looked and as a result were the most confident clothed or naked. Now some people are shallow and scars or other things will turn them off but I ask are these the kind of people you want to be around in the first place?
That said are scars something we (general we as in most people) truly take note of or is it the person themselves overall? My wife not only has a c-section scar (both children) that is generally only seen when naked or she is wearing one of her small bikinis but also a fairly large scar on the side of her neck starting about the jawline from a skin cancer being removed in her very early 20's. The one on her neck is fairly impossible to hide unless she wears her hair down yet despite her keeping it up most of the time there are people who have never noticed it for years. Not just never noticed it but surprised when it gets mentioned when talking about sun exposure. Keep in mind these are folks who have known us for years and we have been across a table or in similar proximity to. If people don't notice such things in a relaxed environment I don't think they will once the clothing comes off because the same can be said for the c-section scar when that has occurred.
I had a Mommy Makeover a few years ago. I'd been needing a breast reduction anyway, and after an "old-fashioned" tubal left me with a hanging tummy I decided to spiff up some things I want happy with. Hubby was happy to go along with it, because it made me happy.
Before that, I asked how I looked trying on a swimsuit and he told me I looked sexy. I was skeptical, but he said "You look confident, and THAT is sexy!"
My scars are fading, but an added bonus is that I work out and stay active, partly because I can't stand to have that money go to waste! But I feel even more confident and happy with my choices, and he still thinks I'm hot.
Well, unless it is a scar from gender reassignment, you should not worry about most people making negative comments. If it is from gender reassignment, Mr Funlyfriend says you can be naked around him as long as you want.
Well said yeaokay... nothing looks better on a woman than Self-confidence!! Women who wear their scars, stretch-marks and cellulite like a badge of honor are the type of women we'd LOVE to meet!
OP, the others are right, nobody cares. Years ago I was self conscious about it, but realized quickly that it doesn't matter. We all have scars, stretch marks etc.
Nobody has ever made a negative comment about anything. Mr. F said you're welcome to be naked around him for as long as it takes for you to feel comfortable :)
That's my point. If you won't do it with average size cocks, why would you think anyone would with her boobs ?
FlipFlops_and_Droptop . Hi . "Average' penis apologize. Heck no!!! no Size Queen here! (what a vulgar term that is!)
I had my breasts done in March of 2018 : Mastopexy or 'lolipop' surgery. The scars have faded but I'm not 22 so they won't go away completely. Not one date has ever said anything and the few whom I ask if they notice usually are surprised and say my breasts are lovely. I enjoy every part of my body and invite others to also. I NEVER apologize. I feel self-confidence is very attractive. I think if SLS folks wanted perfection they would look elsewhere . I like every mole, bald spot and bit of tummy fat my friends have. Their minds!!! rock me.
@mrswg, with an amazing body like that, I'd never in a million years notice any scars. I guarantee it. Should a guy with an average cock be embarrassed ?
Nobody cares. Honestly, I know you do and are self conscious about your scar, but really, nobody else cares.
I have a scar that runs from nearly hipbone to hipbone and nobody has ever mentioned it. I suspect even my regular partners don't know I have a scar, because they're paying attention to other things. ;-)
To be honest, usually the things that women are insecure about are the things that endear us to you the most... it's what makes each woman unique. Easier said than done??? Yes, but if you don't love your body who else will? We're not perfect nor do we ask our others to be; we just celebrate the difference!
How do you navigate dealing with insecurity due to scars? I am very embarrassed about a particular scar because it will be seen if I play with anyone.
