My husband used a set of trainer plugs on me. We had anal sex before he did that, and I enjoyed it, but the first entry of his cockhead was always the hard part. After I had gone thru all of the training plugs, I found that I could easily except entry and enjoy anal sex even more. It worked for me very well. I have regularly taken 9 and 10" cocks quite easily. Sometimes I enjoy shocking a new partner by getting on top and sitting down on his cock with my ass, most men seem very pleasantly surprised and I certainly enjoy it. It's also very nice to be able to control how hard or fast you want the intercourse to be. Since then I've only met two men I've refused anal to because of their size. It was because of their girth, they could barely get in my vagina and were both very aggressive when having intercourse. It was a set of 5 graduated plugs, and he used each one for a week at a time until I was thru them all. Also when the man is entering you, you need to push your muscles outward, not tighten up. Good luck!
